I'm so fucked up. Theres this woman that I want bad. The problem is this is some cringe online thing where she spends all day with me playing videogames until 3 or 5am while she is living with her bf who is upstairs while we play. She only just recently mentioned her bf because i heard him in the background. We have been playing together in a discord call for hours everyday now for over a week. I have flirted with her and she has flirted back before. She also likes me taking the lead on everything and pretty much always does what I want or ask. I don't know what to do after finding out she has a bf. It felt like getting punched in the gut and put me into a shock when she told me. She reminds me of both of my ex gfs (who both left me for another man kek). I have no problem cheating with her. But I'm not sure what the best course of action would be for me. I want to keep this connection with her but I also don't want to be perma friendzoned. She inspires me to be a better man. I don't know much about her current relationship and am not sure if I should even talk to her about it to find out more info. What the FUCK do I do?
>>34578157No woman does that who is happy in her relationship. She's doing the woman thing and is passive, wants to be swept away, she won't leave until the relationship becomes unbearably bad.I'd just cut my losses here.
>>34578173>she wants to be swept awayGot it.
>>34578234That's clearly the feeling she's chasing with you based on your post, but it might be she doesn't ever want to make it real and doesn't want change. Just keep that in mind.
>>34578157Are you really sure she's flirting and not just being friendly?
>>34578306>playing vidya with the same man until 5am daily while you have a bf and both have flirtedYeah no
>>34578313But was it flirting? Or did OP just optimistically interpret it that way? I doubt she's after anything more than an orbiter.
I know someone like her but male. He plays autistic games all night long while talking to another guy as if he's their closest friend. No one enjoys doing the actual thing but for some lonely guys who's only social on the internet this dude is worth simping for
normalfag relationships are so disgusting>the orbiter desperately simping for a crumb of her pussy >the cuck bf who is either naively oblivious to what's going on or actively deluding himself that it is okay that his gf is flirting with another guy>the disloyal whore gf that is already hedging her bets behind her bf's backall of this is only disgusting to me; don't understand how people are able to put up with this
>>34578157ew kys if you are serious
>>34578157How did you meet?
She's already asking me to play again today
>>34578435The crazy thing is, most men are in relationships like this these days, whether they realise it or not.
>>34578435That's modern everything normalfag these days>the turbo delusional cuck>the simp who turns himself into a doormat for the....>the slut who farms attention every minute of her existenceThis dynamic is literally the engine of normalfag modern society
>>34578591How to have dignity in the world, if you are not a psychopath? Guess you have to bite the bullet.
>>34578157Anon, I was in the same situation with the exception that I was also in a relationship. Leave now. You know that what you're doing is wrong and if you keep making excuses you'll end up in a bad situation. She is looking for attention and doesn't respect her relationship enough to either do it with her bf or leave her bf to do it with you. No good can come from this, trust me.>I want to keep this connection with her>She inspires me to be a better man>not sure if I should even talk to her about it to find out more infoStop deluding yourself, no good can come from this. In my case my friend even broke up with her boyfriend that was never home since he's in the military and started saying shit like "how does it feel that you stole me from a marine?". You don't want this kind of attention nor the responsibility that comes from it. And stop gaslighting yourself that what you're doing is ok since it's her decision, tell her that you're going to respect their relationship because she clearly won't, and if you're together she will do the same to you.
>>34578157I know in my case I don't give her my time , energy, the life of her dreams. She loses because I won't accept betrayal I come first.
>>34578157I had this dynamic with an online guy friend a few years ago, we spent hours streaming shows together on call, talking all day, playing stuff together. he became really fucking clingy and started getting mad at me if I didn't give him enough attention or if I said I wouldn't date someone who's his age etc. I'm a total bitch so when he started implying he wanted me I wanted to get to the bottom of this bullshit so I did this whole LARP of "teeheee actually I may have feewings fow you but I'm too shy" and only at that point he revealed that he had a gf of 6 years so I became distant. appearantly they had a stupid deadline coming up and they decided that by that date they either break up or get engaged. people do stupid shit and don't know what they want, they're cowards who are afraid of being single and test the waters for god knows what reason, better just avoid all of that.
>>34580903If she commits to me then I commit to her
>>34580932what's even commitment to her? she's doing this shit while she has a bf. if she can't handle being single will this really be a meaningful relationship or just something she does to distract herself? you know this isn't platonic, she knows this isn't platonic, her cuck bf probably knows that too to some degree.there will be excuses and she won't outright cuck him but everyone knows what it's all about.if you ask her rn she will reject you and come back later, to dodge her own guilt and lie to herself that it all unintended and just happened naturally and gradually.
>E-relationship on discordLmao. Have you even met irl?
Where the hell are you nerds coming from!?I always see these sorts of stories on reddit and this dogshit necro-board and can't believe that such people really exist.Holy shit dude, not even the wimpiest millennial cuck was so pathetic back in their time, this generation is just extra pathetic.
>>34578157>she is living with her bfSo what is your end game? Lets say she does like you but where in hell is she going to live after she gets booted? Will she live with you? Its obvious you don't work if you play video games all day till early morning so you don't have a place she can move into.OP you are a playmate with plenty of time to play
OP here, just found out she has brown eyes. I can't do this anymore. Dropping all effort on this to the minimum. Don't worry I know I'm a massive flaming homosexual.
