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For about two years now, I've been in a virtual “relationship” with someone, and he's given me everything. I always thought I was straight, but it turns out that's not entirely true.

Every day we talk for hours, we spend hours playing, and he’s given me so much more than I could ever imagine. He really makes me feel whole and fulfilled; every time I see him smile, it fills my heart, and my God… he’s a wonderful man.

He admitted that I came into his life when he was at a pretty low point, and that thanks to me, his life has improved a lot. He stopped drinking, he rarely smokes now, he’s started exercising again, he got a well-paying job, and he’s really improved—“I do everything for you.”

I’ve also made changes in my life thanks to him, and he’s really made me rethink a lot of things. I truly feel that I love him, but… I don’t know how to tell him the truth. I really want to give him my heart and my whole being, but I don’t think he’d accept a relationship with a man at this point, especially given the lie he’s living.

I don’t know what to do. I truly love him and don’t want to lose him, but I know that if we keep going like this, the damage will only get worse.
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Put a ring on that fin.
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>>34578619
You're the catfish in this scenario, not him.

There's no good way out of this. He will be vdevastated when you tell him, and the longer you wait, the worse it will be. Nothing to do but bite the bullet and tell him now.
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cause of the image i thought you were sticking your dick in that fish
this is significantly less interesting
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>>34578619
>For about two years now, I've been in a virtual “relationship” with someone

If its any consolation, he also has a few screws loose. You're both basically jerking off to a projected phntasy image of a hypothetical person that doesn't really exist.
No, internet chats do not actually let you know someone. He doesn't even know that you are not awoman, how can you talk about a "relationship"?
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Both of you have BPD probably
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>>34578977
Kek
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What do you do when he wants to video chat, wants pictures, or to voice chat?
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>>34578619
recognize
LARP ATTEMPT
IGNORE, JUDGE



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