>ask girl on a date (we’ve been friends for a year)>she says yes>it’s clear that she doesn’t “like” me but more like “why not”>we do get along well, she is attractive and she’s told me I’m attractive too (platonically)>she’s always been very passive and has never initiated hanging out, and rarely texts first >but when we have hung out or I text her she does engage and is presentIs it worth pursuing if she’s just relenting, rather than actually being attracted from the outset?
if she let you put ponos in vagoo then why not
>>34578942>Is it worth pursuingNo.
>>34578942>itDo you want to fuck or a relationship? if the latter, no. If the former, yeah.
>>34578957>>34578991Yes I do, but I don’t want to be settled for either.>>34578967Why not?
>>34579229you're the key just break another lock if it doesn't work out
Not worth pursuing anything long-term. She's clearly not that in to you and just "dating" you out of being nice or pity. Neither of these are good reasons to be with someone. Sucks but you'll be fine OP.
>>34578942you have self esteem problems. women never ever give regular guys a chance just because they're sweet. step up to the chance you've been given and learn to be confident
>>34579383After our last time meeting I said>I’d love to take you out on a date next timeAnd I also said “I hope I’m not misreading things”She said yes sure and no, you’re not. But the vibe and tone felt the same as me asking her “shall we walk back to the car?” She also brushed off small comments I made like “you looked cute today” and “I had a lot of fun.” She just doesn’t act at all like when other girls have liked me. I didn’t really feel enthusiasm from her, more just acquiescence
Some people will inherently respond emotionally to situations differently than what you may expect of that emotion, if you have been friends with her for at least a year you should be able to guess how she express emotions in regards to other experiences she has hadIf this is just her normal emotional responses in regards to romance, then that's just her way of expressionIf it's not, rather then agressively calling her out just try to have a conversation and try to understand why she is willing to date you or why she wouldn'tSince we have no way of knowing her tone or the lens you are using to interpret her, it just sounds like you are massively insecure and you needed this lady to give you puppy eyes and say how much she adores you even though she has already stated she likes being with you and wouldn't mind dating you
>>34580486Thanks anon. I’m being an insecure faggot here on 4chan because it’s better than being one to her. I don’t think a conversation like that needs to happen yet, I’ll wait to see how being on an actual date feels, even though when we hang out it has always been date-like just without the intentions
>>34579229>Why not?If she actually found you attractive, she would initiate contact. What you're getting instead is almost archetypal friendzone behaviour: friendly and polite, but nothing more.
>>34580611Then why would she say yes to a date? She also said “no you’re not” when I said “I hope I’m not misreading things”
