>>34580351
Did you always have that fear about getting it up? Was it always something you had trouble with? Do you have trouble getting it up outside of interactions with other people?
If the cause for this lies in something psychological, then talking to a therapist might help, yeah. Like if it is due to fear of judgement about your performance and all, or if it is something more profound than that.
You can also speak to an urologist to see if there's something wrong in the organic side of things, and associated treatments, if necessary.

>>34580500
>>Did you always have that fear about getting it up?
At first just a bit insecure but i always felt what i considered to be abnormal sensitivity, oral sex never felt pleasurable to me, when i went to an urologist (twice) he said i was just being a pussy basically
>Was it always something you had trouble with?
Became worse with each attempt
>Do you have trouble getting it up outside of interactions with other people?
With porn not really, even if i just use my imagination i can get it up, and even with the people i tried i could at times get it up, just not during penetration or with a condom

>>34580507
Unless it is due to reduced sensitivity (for example, consequences of a surgery/circumcision), or due to a medication, I believe the explanation might be mostly psychological, then..
I'd say to go talk with a therapist, preferably one that has experience dealing with that sorta thing.
Best of luck man, That sort of thing happens, it is a lot of pressure to perform and stuff, that kinda shit can mess with our head and ruin the experience.

>>34580516
Thanks, i guess i will try abstaining myself from porn and masturbate less to see if it at least motivates me to pursue something like that again
I thing i will try again with a prostitute since it would make failure hurt less

>>34580351
Porn addiction quite likely is the problem. What you really need to do is go to a sex therapist, but that is generally something you do as a couple, not as a single person. Don't be scared of trying Viagra or Cialis in order to get your confidence up.

>>34580351
Bro you're probably not attracted to women, did you consider that?

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>>34580764
He said he tried it with a man as well.

>>34580649
I actually searched it up previously and it looks like it might be what i attempt next better that than going to a whore
>>34580764
I'm starting to believe i'm not attracted to anyone

>>34582968
But having to rely on medication at such a young age isn't ideal. Like I said previously, unless there is something organic/physical going on, the problem likely lies in something psychological, which doesn't mean it's nonsense, just that it is something that needs to be figured out.