Finally got a new gf after about 4-5 years of being an inkwell.I knew she's not a virgin to begin with(I'm not one either so I was like whatever), but later I found out she got a big bodycount including guys who were bigger, and I'm starting to reconsider this whole thing.It's not like I'm afraid of it from a performance perspective, since I can make her orgasm (and allegedly I'm the only guy who managed to make her orgasm from PIV), but there's just something nasty about it that I can't shake.I doubt this feeling is ever gonna go away on its own. But I'm also not sure it's a good idea to break up because maybe I can't really do better(think I also kinda hit the diminishing returns/plateau in terms of self improvement).What do I do?
>>34581034are pornbrained men this fucking retarded? you really thinks she cares about that? why? did she even notice or compare you to them to begin with?I get why a big bodycount is a red flag but lmao, is your size really an issue here unless you have some extreme condition?
You’re overthinking it. Don’t let the 4chan brainrot ruin something you finally achieved.Also you ‘being the only one to make her orgasm’ is a meme, but at least she’s trying to be nice to you.
>>34581066>you really thinks she cares about that?It's not about whether she cares about it or not, it's about how I'm feeling about it. It's like a switch has been flipped and I'm not as invested anymore
>>34581034>What do I do?What they also do, monkey branch
>>34581082that's beyond retarded but if that's the case just let her know, don't drag it on.
>>34581066>you really thinks she cares about that?WTF are you talking about? It has nothing to do with whether she cares or not, it's just utter disgusting.
>>34581099>that's beyond retardedIf the past doesn't matter why are men not going to whorehouses to find their future wives?>just let her know, don't drag it on.Don't follow this ridiculous advice. This person clearly not have your best interest in mind. Follow this instead: >>34581098>What they also do, monkey branchEmulate their behavior.
>>34581100>>34581107he wrote in the post that this has to do with some of the guys being bigger than him, doesn't really seem related to her bodycount. the past does matter, the dick size of past partners seem absolutely irrelevant as it reflects on nothing at all.so really, seems like insecurity in disguise caused by brainrot.suggesting him to monkeybranch is BPDemon behavior and will ultimately be unhealthy for him but whatever, give him your retarded ideas so he can feel like he "owned" her.
>>34581034How do you know they were bigger?
Daily reminder that the ppl telling u to marry whores are the real conservatives. Our society doesn't deserve preservation
>>34581162>suggesting him to monkeybranch is BPDemon behaviorAll women do it. I think I saw you calling BPDemon another anon suggested this when I asked him why he was thinking about doing that, and guess what? He fucking convinced me, we should emulate successful behavior of people. Women do it all the time and they succeed, if you want to survive, that's the way to go. One ugly girlfriend at a time you can get a hot gf with a low body count. The world is within your reach.
>>34581162>he wrote in the post that this has to do with some of the guys being bigger than him, doesn't really seem related to her bodycount.the body count is bad enough but it's even worse that some were hung(I'm already above average so that's insane)>How do you know they were bigger?she told me that she has a friend she discusses sex stuff with, and that they reached the conclusions that the small ones aren't good cuz they don't feel anything, but the very big ones aren't good either because they hurtSo I was like, are you saying I'm not the biggest you been with? and she said yes
>>34581893well there's long term success and short term success and end results vary. I wouldn't jump from one relationship to another too fast, people need time to process, grieve, rethink, adjust, otherwise you can get stuck in miserable loops repeating the same mistakes over and over by choosing garbage partners or not communicating well enough or whatever. if you just want to fuck someone then whatever yeah that will work, but then why even be in a relationship? just do hookups or bootycalls.
>>34582019sounds like it wounded your ego in some way, or maybe it's not the dick sizes at all but the fact she discusses these intimate things so casually with her friend and ranks penises like they're teenage boys ranking pornstar tits?well think about it, find out what's actually bothering you, sit with it for a while consider whether it's a dealbreaker for you or not.
>>34581034>bodycountYour mind is infected with memes that are guaranteeing your unhappiness.
>>34582054were 99% of men across history just wrong until the enlightened 21st century guys brought up in feminism showed up?
>>34582054You display a kind of casual realism that suggests the way we live now is the way it has always been or the way it is supposed to be. You are conservative
>>34581034>>34581100>>34582157Yeah, spend your life ALONE and CHILDLESS just because of your RETARDED PREJUDICE about women who had more than one partner before you. No wonder there are so many incels, as MEN ARE THIS FUCKING RETARDED TO OSTRACIZE WOMEN WITH NORMAL SEXUAL ACTIVITY FOR NO REASON. If a woman does not get married it is normal for her to have the number of partners you said your girlfriend has had. Because women, too, get dumped. And they too, need to have sex life, preferably relationships, not to end up as social outcasts, as no one wants to be friend of a loser who has no sex life. And if you haven't got friends irl, to post pictures of on your social media page, you won't have following, and if you haven't got that, you won't be hired by anyone either. As no one follows a loser with no friends and no one hires a loser with no following. So, if a woman stays a pure virgin or has one brief relationship as a result of being dumped, before getting married in her late twenties or early thirties, SHE WILL DROP OUT OF SOCIETY AND BECOME A NEET for the rest of her life.Whatever, rot alone, idiot.And yeah, I'm not going to check the replies as there will be a PACK OF RETARDS concluding on the basis of my post that I am some kind of a "roastie". To make such a conclusion is just SO FUCKING RETARDED IT MAKES ME WANT TO TRASH PLACES OR BEAT SOMEONE UP. And as I can't I will have a panic attack. So bye, just stick it into your skulls what I said
You will never get over it. But a Lil of something is better than all of nothing. Especially if they liked black men. O man. It will eat at you. And just cause u to be sad in the long run. Enjoy the company and forget the sex.
its about living in the present together. who gaf about who she fucked in the PAST
>>34582310Nonvirgins are whores and not for marriage
>>34582362this.
your gf is like a mustard jar.everyone had their weiner in it.german wisdom>>34582274some1 is ebin mad
>>34581034>allegedly I'm the only guy who managed to make her orgasm from PIV
>>34582274It does kind of make sense from the point of view that sexual insecurity is so common that contemporary culture reflects it>collective obsession with big black bvlls>collective obsession with cuckoldry>collective obsession with bodycount and chastityI think it would serve everyone best if they were honest and just admitted that the reason they don't want women with high body counts is because every past partner adds one to the denominator of the fraction which denotes the likelihood that they're the best she's ever had.If she's a virgin, the sex you have will be the best she ever had. No argument. It will be.If she's slept with 50 men before you, there is irrefutably a 1/50 chance that you're the best she's ever had. There is no cope to parry that one, it is what it is.People get really upset about all this, nasty words get thrown around but really that's all there is to it.
>>34582274>no one hires a loser with no followingWhat the fuck kind of made up silicon valley hellscape female nu-job do you have where someone's fucking social media following is a factor in hiring them?The rest of the post is also bad for the record but this bit warranted a (You)
>>34582274Funny femoid rage.Also, bodycount truly IS irrelevant. If she's not a virgin, she acted under the same principles whether her body count is 1, 5, or 20. Take this and use it to cope, OP. Only virginity matters, so you might as well enjoy your relationship slop.
>>34582274>>34584918Actually, I remember now, I think this is pasta. Still, it's great!
