>>34581664
They feel so vapid desu. The slightest things set them off and their emotions can change on a whim. It's I want to marry you and then sorry but you're not exciting anymore. I tried long term dating once and now I'm done.

>>34581664
You're supposed to find a woman who you actually like and has interesting things to say. Keep looking, you'll find one

>>34581903
I'm 29
Nothing ever happens if I don't make it. I hear the "it'll eventually" shit all the time and it's not true, at least not for me.
People tell me about "organically" meeting other people and frankly that just doesn't happen to me.

The only time I can meet girls is when I'm out on the prowl for them.
>>34581702
>I want to marry you and then sorry but you're not exciting anymore
God I feel that.
It's like bitch not like you were a rollercoaster either.

Huh, nice.
29 here too.
A coworker kept flirting with me, I just used that to get what I want (not sexually), and I'm using that to leave.
Now I thought I should date her or keep her around, but nah. Not because she would drive me off a cliff mentally, but she flickers between being into me and just not. I also heard she had a boyfriend and she regularly clubs and also hikes with other people, so, why bother wasting both our time?
I'm kinda dying now, since I realize beer hurts to drink, so I don't have time for that. I have time for a real job, and hookers when I'm free.
Worst case, there's a backup plan for Tinder I'm getting help with.


I got goals and dreams to fulfill, I'm willing to not have bitches if they suck (badly).

>>34581664
I'm 28 and in the same boat as you but I met a girl that was actually kind once and actually quite a few back when I was in high school. They were all like 4 years older than me and honestly is why I take the women born after 1993 meme seriously.

>>34581664
You may well be aromantic. And that's actually fine, so long as you're honest about it up front.

>>34581969
you seem kinda miserable. sounds like you are desperate to be in a relationship for some reason. but being in a relationship is not the point, at least not for me, for me it's always about specific people i want to be in a relationship with. it's generally just a matter of time before you will find someone, and when it happens there isn't much you can do about it anyway. it's the best and worst thing that can happen to you. you just want to live your regular life and all of a sudden you have to deal with all these emotions and stuff and it just gets in the way of your daily life, but it also feels really fucking nice if it's going well. of course you can actively go on dates and whatever, doesn't mean that you fall in love soon. it's a matter of feeling it.

also kinda sounds like you hate women. so, maybe try not looking down on them first...

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>>34583654
>sounds like you are desperate to be in a relationship for some reason
I just think it'd be nice to be in love once, basically out of curiosity. Not really desperate for it. Does
>I tried practicing with a girl I'm seeing, just talking to her
sound desperate to you?

>just a matter of time
Like I said, shit just doesn't happen by itself. Maybe for others, but that's never worked for me.
I'm almost 30 and I've never even had a crush
>kinda sounds like you hate women
I mean, not all of them. I hate helpless people, people with no excuse that can't do shit about nothing, doormats, and that's most girls I've met.
Like 4 years ago I started dressing all whack intentionally, when I'd date a girl she'd start dressing whack just like me. (I stopped but yeah)
The women in my family all had a spine, I want a girl with a backbone man that's the type I like but they're just impossible to find.

>>34585226
> Like I said, shit just doesn't happen by itself. Maybe for others, but that's never worked for me.
I'm almost 30 and I've never even had a crush

but that's literally how it happens. you don't decide to be in love, you feel it. i am a rather picky person when it comes to dating and i need to know someone better before it feels like i am not just pretending to like the other person and still there is always a moment where it switches from "this person seems romantically interesting" to "oh shit, i hope i have chance with them".

if you never had a crush then it's probably like the others said, you might just be aromatic. trust me, you are missing out but that also means that you are missing out on a lot of pain. i had several big crushes that did not work out and it was always really painful and occupied a lot of my mind and my daily life. at least you dont have to deal with that.

still sounds like you hate women. i dont know the people you met but most girls i met are just perfectly normal people. i am friends with a lot of women and i like them as people. they arent that different from anyone else. it would have never occured to me that anyone of them is helpless or that it's because they are women. everyone has their own problem to deal with. it's the same with guys. life isnt always easy, but you dont need to go through it alone.

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>>34585385
>if you never had a crush then it's probably like the others said, you might just be aromatic. trust me, you are missing out but that also means that you are missing out on a lot of pain. i had several big crushes that did not work out and it was always really painful and occupied a lot of my mind and my daily life. at least you dont have to deal with that.
I've felt like I'm dying for 6 months haha