I'm friends with my roommate and spent time with her family. It's her cousin's birthday and her cousin has written me off or blatantly excluded me at other get togethers and her friends were really hostile to me. Why would her cousin extend a birthday party invitation to me? To seem nice? Why do that if you clearly don't like me and made it known?
>>34581678Ignore it if you get upset or show that you're upset then you will just satisfy them act like you don't care and do something else.
>>34581734Yeah I don't plan on going, especially when she only invited me today, the day of lolBut I just want an insight into why people are like this
>>34581784Some people are simply mean, and there isn't always a clear reason why. It really depends on the person. That said, she could be jealous of how close you are to her cousin, or she might even be jealous of your appearance. It's also possible that she's just trying to get under your skin and make you feel bad.I've been in a similar situation before. A mutual friend of mine had another friend who disliked me, and the feeling was mutual. Eventually, I started avoiding my friend whenever that person was around because I didn't want to deal with the negativity. Over time, my friend began to see how badly that person was and eventually stopped spending time with him. My point is that it may be best to avoid the cousin for now. If she is genuinely a mean person, your roommate will likely notice it on their own over time. Sometimes a little distance allows people to see someone's true character, and your friendship with your roommate can grow stronger again without the added drama.
>>34581842Thank you anon, that gives me a lot of clarity and relief.
