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>be incel
>have a female friend
>one day she invites me to have a threesome with her and another woman
>I accept
>the other woman chooses not to go through at the last minute
>my friend and I have sex
>it was great
>(at least for me)
>a few weeks pass
>we don't see each other due to work
>the next time I see her she's dressed with a bunch of pride flag accessories
>"oh yeah I'm a lesbian now, I don't like men anymore"
>shows me a photo of her and her new girlfriend
I don't even know how to cope with this.
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>>34581710
She just wanted dick before she committed to pussy. You'll get over it.
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>>34581710
The threesome things was an idea for her to have sex with you and build a relationship with you, but you just fucked her, did not make her cum, and ghosted her for 1 week. Damn it, you turned her into a lesbian.
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>>34581770
Before and after we did it she said she didn't want a relationship at all. Was I supposed to beg her?
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>>34581710
>my friend's name?
>Albert Einstein
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>>34581789
>Before and after we did it she said she didn't want a relationship at all. Was I supposed to beg her?
You didn't ask to be in relationship with her, you asked if she wanted to be in a relationship with you, it's different. And I see you didn't deny not making her orgasm. You were too immersed about yourself.

>me
>me
>myself
>me

Idk what to tell you, no coping mechanism will solve the real problem.
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>>34581817
I didn't ask because she made it clear several times that she didn't want to be in a relationship.

Even throughout the weeks, in which we kept talking via text because I did not ghost her, she kept mentioning how it was a one time thing only and shit.
>you didn't deny not making her orgasm
It was my first time and she knew it. I really didn't know what to expet.
>no coping mechanism will solve the problem
The problem is that I feel like shit and can't even focus on my job properly. I can't do anything about her and her lesbianism.
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>>34581852
>The problem is that I feel like shit and can't even focus on my job properly. I can't do anything about her and her lesbianism.
I understand how you feel somehow, fren, but it's her decision, you literally can't help her, if you try anything, it will only get out of hand and it could backfire and hit you in the head. What happens from now on is here decision. You may ask her what made her come out as a lesbian and what led her to these conclusions but you can't really choose for her.
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>>34581753
This. Plus, most lesbians who are actually bi will lie about being bi because there is strong anti-bi stigma in the lesbian community
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>personality so good you pull a lesbian
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>>34581710
Who cares if your sex is bad you're not an incel anymore don't keep spiraling down.
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>>34581710
>The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.
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>>34581710
Lmao there's a bunch of people confusing you in the comment and it's because they are acting in bad faith and purposefully misunderstanding your story, let me give you the real answer:

You did nothing wrong. The girl was already on her lesbian arc, and nothing you could have done would change it.
You enjoyed the sex. You partook. You're one of the good ones, she's used goods and well, unfortunately every girl has innate value placed upon her by males just for existing, so we shouldn't worry ourselves with her too much. Just realize that females are high functioning humans thanks to the fact that men (and women!) constantly offer opportunities to them. Social, friendly, sexual, material, emotional, occupational, financial, foodacial, all kinds of opportunities. So, a high functioning human chose to use a disposable. You are a disposable. You are a man. You are disposable to her. Entirely. And your feelings don't matter and aren't taken into account AT ALL. Women ALL know that they can and DO get better people coming into their lives constantly, they are never hung up over one male, unless mentally ill. Really, women are their own worse enemy. If I was a woman, I'd be super successful. In the ways that matter to ME (husband who takes care of me emotionally, always up to do something, friends up the RA)
So yeah man, you were the resident male in line. You accepted an opportunity she offered you which is rare, but happened. If it wasn't you, it could have been x=any male. So yeah dude. Don't take it as an indication of you and your value. Be happy you got some cake. Remember and savor the moments in which you came.
Unfortunately, It's really that simple.



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