How do I convince myself to go through with breaking up with my gf? I have to do it for a myriad of reasons, but I always pussy out and postpone it away. I've been doing this for nearly a year.And,>Bro just do itIsn't good advice. If it was that simple I would have done it already.
>>34581977bro just do it
>>34581977Whats hard about it? She's in a bad place?
>>34581977The cowardly option is to make her break up with you by acting like a bum until she’s had enough. The better option is to be the one who ends the relationship yourself. You can use the classic “It’s not you, it’s me,” but it’s usually best to be honest and direct: “I’m not happy, and I think it’s best that we break up.”
>>34581977Accept that you love her and recommit to the relationship
>>34582077Shes unemployed and moved in with me. Without my consent in fact, she just never left and slowly took her things here.>>34582099Oh that wont work. Shes never doing it herself. I know what I have to say, I just cant bring myself to. I end up giving up and postponing for a "more appropriate" time>>34582100Not possible. I actually dont have much of a choice. And shes ruining my life>>34582077
Just bite the bullet and do it. Help her get reestablished if you need to fulfill some duty to her. Otherwise just dump. It's only hurting both of you. You're not sparing her any pain, she probably unconsciously knows you dont love her
>>34582100based
>>34582140>Shes unemployed and moved in with me. Without my consent in fact, she just never left and slowly took her things here.You are a retard and unfortunately there is no cure