I'm quite into those "enemies to lovers" romance stories, and I don't think I'd like a girl who loves me from the start, but someone who hates me at first but changes her mind after getting to know meThat sounds way more reassuring
>>34582353that's an extremely gay fantasy keep in mind. first impressions are very hard to change and trust is hard to gain once broken.
>>34582375I am bi.And because first impressions are hard to change, if she has a good first impression of me she's not loving me because of objective fact, but because how I appeared to her the first few minutes we met
>>34582390yeah that's completely wrong... nobody falls for someone because of the first impression they made, it's just the brain scanning for safety. if you come off as unsafe that would be really hard/impossible to change.
Maybe men aren't lonely enough.
>>34582353Slight or perceived danger is v intriguing and can also create a slight aura of mystery. Creating the feeling of safety for her will help her feel confidant and comfortable
>>34582353>I'm quite into those "enemies to lovers" romance storiesWhy do you think this is possible in real life?Seems unlikely to me
>>34583728TV producers wouldn't lie