Also if you tell them you need reassurance, doesn't that defeat the point of reassurance? They'd be lying to make you feel goodAlso, at what point in the relationship is okay to start asking for it? Is before dating okay?
>>34582381Asking for reassurance shows that you are mentally stable enough to understand and acknowledge your own needs while being able to communicate in a positive fashion. If whoever you sure are requesting reassurance from is unaware of your needs, that hole will never be fulfilled.
>>34582421I don't want to give the ick
>>34582438bruh.. if it's anyone worth being in your life, it will only bring you guys closer.
>>34582462>it will only bring you guys closer.making stuff up or actual life experience you went through?
>>34582381>if you tell them you need reassurance, doesn't that defeat the point of reassurance? They'd be lying to make you feel goodIf they're that kind of person. I always maintain a strict radical honesty policy with people who are important to me, for precisely this reason. They know I always tell them *everything*, including things they don't want to hear; and that means they know they can trust me when I say something complimentary.
>>34583545they can't know if you're telling them everything or not
