>gf is mentally ill and depressed>suddenly she ghosts me>ask her if she wants me to come over>she says no>come over anyway>she pretends not to notice me>after a while she says thank you for coming>ask her if she wants me to stay or leave>she says both I guessWTF?
Leave. Don't put up with that. You're unreliable to her.
>>34582488She is depressed, those are signs of clinical depression
>>34582538>Don't put up with thatSo you're saying it's my fault?> You're unreliable to her.So you're saying it's her fault?>>34583206thanks for reading the first line or my post
>>34582488this is your first sign that you have tu run the fuck away from that person, what else do you need?
>>34583464is that something really that horrible?
>>34583514well anon, those signs are not worrying per se, they are just signalling an unstable person. That only escalates and gets worsehonestly unless you are very much invested in this person and you decide to keep on investing on their mental health, I'd suggest you move on to greener pastures
She feels depressed and wants to reject the world around her, but you being compassionate in spite of her declining means a lot to her. When you're at your lowest and don't want to be around anyone, you just want to sleep and wallow in your pain, somebody who shows up to hold your hand and weather the storm is no small gesture. Sometimes you just want to be upset and bad about yourself, but when you're depressed, it's frequent and heavier. She wants to feel that you're there even if her depressed side is trying to push everything away.
