Can women tell if you're depressed? Will they resent you for being depressed?I don't whine and cry and complain about life or myself or anything. I actually avoid talking about myself or what I'm thinking at all costs. I figure people prefer talking about themselves anyway.I just want to know if they can tell so I'm not setting myself up for failure before I try dating again. I'm losing a lot weight and quitting smoking, have a great job and make slightly more than my college educated peers. So this will be the first time in my life that I have any value as a person. But I've been told that having problems is an ick.sorry for the lengthy post.
>>34582793Try telling that to the person you're dating or on a date with. Honestly, it might work better than you think good girls often appreciate sincerity and genuine honesty.
>>34582816lol I get its funny to give people bad advice, cause its like comical to think about someone doing something stupid. Its mostly harmless I would think. Not like I would necessarily give counterintuitive advice, maybe I'm bit narcissistic and think its flattering that someone would take my advice on something. But I'm not going to tell a woman what I just posted. That would be ridiculous. Not to sound argumentative but why the hell would I ever tell a woman I'm depressed? at best I might as well just end the date myself or at worse I'd just be giving her ammunition. In general there's really no good that can come out of telling a woman about your problems or what you're thinking, and they hate it as well anyway. So it'd be rather self destructive you know.
>>34582825i just wanted to say you were right about meand im sorry for insulting youim the fakei was angry and couldnt control my feelings earlieryou are right about me im a piece of shitim really sorryi dont expect us to ever talk againjust know you were right about meim sorry..........
>>34582825fuck you nigga
>>34582876Sorry I hope I didnt come off as insensitive or rude. I genuinely apologize if your advice was meant to be sincere. I hope you dont feel like your effort was dismissed.
I think if she would make fun of you for feeling depressed then she isn't worth it anyway. Just don't lay it on too thick when you've just met someone. Save it for later.
>>34582936why would I lay anything on thick?
>>34582940Then you have nothing to worry about! Just tell them that you struggle with depression but you've been doing great and seeing improvements.
>>34582944>Just tell them that you struggle with depression but you've been doing great and seeing improvements.why would I say this?
>>34582950Well don't open with it dumbass. Maybe the second or third date. Some women really are attracted to sad guys like that and it won't blindside them if you have an episode later
>>34582957>Just tell them that you struggle with depression but you've been doing great and seeing improvements.I'll ask again, why would I say this? At all.
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>>34582973this
>>34582973I don't know who that is.
>>34582976Serial cheater who mastered the method of talking like a shy teenage boy at the age of 34 to sleep with multiple 19 year olds.
>>34582986were you suggesting I do that?
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>>34583007alright.
>>34582950>why would I say this?depression itself isn't what they resent but this shit 100% iswomen don't want to constantly hear your rational, accurate assessments of why things aren't working out for you, or why you can't find a silver lining
>>34583082What have I said in this thread that has given you the impression that I intend to bring it up at all? What have I said in this thread that has given you the impression that all I talk about is myself to the point that I would constantly bombard anyone about anything?why are you so hell bent on projecting this narrative?
>>34582973>>34582986>>34583007Not OP but would this even work IRL? He's an eceleb so I feel like it's a different territory. Not saying dark and brooding isn't liked but what he did was pretty different.
>>34582944>Just self-destruct bro
>>34583366 yeah I know I have no clue what that guy was talking about. and I dont think he ever read a single thing I said. He was desperately trying to create a narrative that all I wanted to do was tell women about my problems. I think he was projecting.
>>34583082bumping cause this projecting retard with no reading comprehension ruined my thread
