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I am Autistic and have been hypersexual even when I didn't know what sex was. I remember having waifus at 5 years old and getting fantasies like shrinking and being unbirthed.

Thing is that I also had an early sexual experience so that might have been the reason why I was so hypersexual. Either way, I am now a pervert and I want to do my best to make it to where my kids avoid what I went through

Is it rational to think "You had sexual fantasies about [insert character] so you should ban your kids from watching that show"? Would it be right to ban the Teen Titans because I went out of my way to look up "starfire naked" when I finally had a way to use the internet?
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>>34583303
That would probably just make them even weirder. Like would you rather have them looking up starfire naked or searching for videos of the Teletubbies fucking?
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>>34583303
I wouldn't ban internet access outright, but definitely restrict it to a few hours. I would limit computer access to a family computer or game console until he gets into middle school. Make him have some regular activity that forces him to go outside, or at the very least not cooped up in the house all day. Bonus if it's something like a sport that forces him to interact with other kids do he can make friends.
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>>34583303
Parents that in any way restrict their childrens' internet access are always the weird people with permanent shit-eating grins and plastic wrap on their furniture for some reason.
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>>34583303
you shouldnt have kids in the first place because there's a high chance you'll abuse them and perpetuate the cycle, it's not about tv or video games
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>>34583303
If you don't have kids don't worry about that until you at least have a stable relationship. That being said you're right that TV, video games, etc. does promote hyper sexuality in kids. My nieces and nephews basically live in the woods and are pretty much normal teenagers who laugh when they see people naked rather than get aroused.
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>>34583303
What I think is reasonable regarding access to internet and stuff for kids is
>must use a shared computer in the middle of the living room up until they get their own pc (around 14~15 years old)
>must use video game consoles in the middle of the living room until around they're about 12 years old
>should only have access to smartphones, tablets etc. when they're around 14~15 years old
>parents should initially watch TV/Streaming together with them. Occasionally verify what they're watching.
>set parental controls if needed.

All that stuff is done in order to moderate and demotivate them from accessing something they shouldn't.
Parents need to take an active role in raising their kids, showing interest in listening to them, playing, etc.



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