> first 2 months great with my gf> she starts getting crazy, wanting me to propose> go on a vacation trip for 7 days> come back> expects me to dog sit every time she works a 24h shift> offer to pay a dog sitter she already has> she refuses, wants me> fight lasts for weeks> in a rage I tell her to install bumble again and go be a whore there> come to her place that night, she tells me to leave 5 times, then calls me to come back> eventually I leave and we talk via phone until 1 in the morning> today, like a week later she tells me that she actually installed it, swiped like 2 times, matched a guy and deleted it straight away without even seeing who he is> my mom is supposed to have surgery this week, and I am already messed up about it(she knows)> this just broke me completely, and she doesn't even have any remorse besides "you told me to do it, but I shouldn't have reacted out of instict, you were a piece of shit">we've been dating for 5 months, seeing each other like 5 times a weekWhat should I do? Techically she did not even speak to anyone(I took a look at her phone while she wasn't looking in the past, no sus chats, so I kinda even believe her desu, but still, I'm crushed)
>>34583575>wants to get married after 2 months>orders you around, wants you to dog sit because it has to be you>start a Bumble account to make you jealous>doesn't care your mom has a surgery and you need a supportAnd you're here, not only defending here, but not even considering ending the relationship
>>34583575broo you're seeing her too much, and it seems like you're being spun around by hershe gets off on making you worry. dont give in. think of it like a whining dog
She's trying to lock you down OP. Don't trust her
>>34583605I am considering ending everything with her, like seriously considering. Hell we were even supposed to go to my mate's wedding this Sunday and I don't give a fuck now. And she is still trying to make me sound crazy like it was nothing..."you are acting insane, it was literally nothing". Was it really nothing? I seriously doubt it...it shows what she is capable of doing(even when I am at my literal lowest due to my mom's surgery - she was even pissed that I would not move in with her and just leave my dad to take care of my mom)
>>34583618Just do it man, it'll only get worse
>>34583575Well, as far as Bumble is concerned, she's right: you literally told her to do it, and nothing bad came of it.However, things clearly aren't working between you for a number of other reasons, so it's obviously time to break up and move on anyway.
>>34583626Bro she did not even wait a day before doing it...and she knew I only said it in rage because she said something along the lines of "Now I will move on" to make me jealous...and she knows this is like the main trigger I have
Get away man you sound sensitive and you gotta accept that and work on improving your life cause this girl is gonna draiiin you for everything you love, you dont wanna be jaded cause of some shitty person...do it like a man though. take her out then get her somewhere private and tell her how u feel. Shes not respecting u and u want some time away. You can even phrase it like that. if she is a good person she will recognize that and respect ur decision, and if you refrain from contact from her and regain your power, you are automatically better than other beta male orbiter simps who continue to fall for the tricks of harpies time and time again
>>34583640>Bro she did not even wait a day before doing it...Because you told her not to wait a day. Look, you can blame her for a whole bunch of other shit, and I told you that you should break up with her and move on. But the Bumble thing specifically, that's 100% on you.
>>34583674Well the past few months she has been an unhinged piece of shit trying to force me into doing stuff I do not want to do and guilt tripping me into it. The only thing she had going for her was being faithful, but that gesture makes me even doubt that(or doubt that she will be in the future if I disagree with her), it's plain emotional blackmail and she knows it..."agree or else"
>>34583575both of you are controlling and untrusting. translating crazythink for you: she probably thinks you cheated on her during your trip. the dog thing is probably just her trying to make sure you're not going anywhere and it gives her an excuse to ask for updates about your whereabouts every 5 minutes. asking you to propose after 2 months just says it all. it's about control.you say it was great before but maybe you were just being lovebombed? just break up, you already broke up with her on impulse when you told her to install a dating app, obviously she told you about it to make you jealous, if that even happened at all.worry about your mother, this girl isn't worth it, she's gonna be a pain in the ass.
>>34583575Get out now. 2 months is early and it's better than 1 year. Believe me she's not the one for you. Get out before this relationship destroys you. Focus on your mom. This thing is lost and it will only end with you paying the cost.
>>34583575cucked by a guy on bumble because you couldn't hang out with a dog
