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how do you deal with the damage done by women never having shown any attraction to you?
its affecting my sexuality, since i can't even suspend disbelief for a scenario where a woman is attracted to me.
i work out, diet, lookmaxx etc basic shit as everyone does.
more info: i had one 'gf' years ago but she didnt respect me and wasn't attracted to me. ive asked 3 coworker women out for coffee at different workplaces and all said nah. 25yo.
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>>34583658
>its affecting muh sexuality help meee
It's over for you anyways, feminine men shouldn't exist. In ye old times you would've simply been an eunuch and had a place, but now you're just another feminine male who whines and cries all day because it doesn't have a free bangmaid mommy.
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>>34583658
Don't hit on co-workers. Almost anyone else is more likely to say yes.
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>>34583658
do u have a blessed spirit? are you part of a community? are you good at stuff? are you interesting? women are nice but they're kind of a red herring... better to try answering yes to those things cause otherwise it sounds like youre focusing on superficial things..
btw a woman will want to have coffee with you if youre interesting.. talk to them for a while, maybe one likes convo w/you
its good though that you're exercising cause that means you know the mechanism that can make everything happen
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>>34583658
>lookmaxx
Your brain is infected with memes that are guaranteeing your misery. Women owe you nothing. You only have yourself to blame if you aren't getting laid. You only have yourself to blame if not getting laid is causing """damage"""
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>>34583658
>has asked 4 women out
>1/4 of them said yes
you have a record 90% of this board would kill for. foh fake problem humblebrag
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>>34583673
this is non sequitur
i do agree with me being the problem, my world view guiding me, but i have no clue what i do to better my position.
>>34583670
conversing with people, i only can do fun superficial chit chat or ideology driven chud rants, little 'normal' sort of normie conversation. just the way i am.
i am good and seem to be relied up at work at least, since i put a lot of effort to working
>>34583668
work is definitely the best place to meet women

RN btw
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>>34583658
Reminder that the most influential man if all time, Jesus Christ, never had a wife, and kings and emperors bowed down to His name for the last 2000 years.
Even if you're not a religious person, you can see that it will make you free from this burden, always being an example that is above you, serving as a sacrifice and driving others who suffer less onwards.

If you have no humility to go one mile further, and willing to reject this desire for the sake of goodness, you cannot be helped.



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