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Am I allowed to date younger women if Im a late bloomer due to health issues which went away?
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>>34584765
No. /thread
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>>34584765

>Am I allowed to date younger women

No unless 18 or older.
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women love dating older men if you have your shit together
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>>34584778
I would say 20 older. 18-19 are still teens. A balding 30 year old lusting after teens is creepy.
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I swear we have a thread every single fucking day about age gap relationships along with
>I am a 37 unemployed autistic incel is it over for me?
>I am 19 years old and my life is over how do I kill myself?
Socially not everybody would accept it but as long as it is legal who the fuck cares lol.
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>>34584786
>18 and above is legal and allowed by the state of law<
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>>34584765
It's painfully obvious from your question that you think the one and only thing that can make a woman desirable is her physical appearance. "Oh, it's not fair I had to miss out on dating women when they're at their hottest, am I allowed to now?" You should be looking to date someone you mesh with emotionally and intellectually, not just someone whose photo you'd want to jerk off over. Do you actually have anything in common with a woman of the age you're thinking of? If you do, that says some very bad things about your maturity level. If you don't, why bother?

t. man who is no longer interested in dating teenagers
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>>34584778
Ofc.
>>34584829
Im looking for similar social status, not 'because they are hot'.
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>>34584765
>allowed
is there a police of dating I'm not aware about
you can do what you want
just don't do it below the age of consent of your country unless you're rich
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>>34584829
>man who is no longer interested in dating teenagers
good for you bro, leave the teens to us
more older women for you, more younger women for us
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>>34584867
I meant is it rational or normal to feel that way.
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>>34584873
You're welcome to them. But try dating someone you can actually have a conversation with, and you may find you like it.
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why do they have to be younger? find someone you genuinely like and enjoy the company of
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>>34584908
I've had better conversations with 19yo girls than with women my age to be honest
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>>34584920
Perhaps you're mentally undeveloped
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>>34584944
as if a 65yo is more witty and intelligent than a smart 25 yo
most people start taking care of their routines and stuff as they age, all they talk about is their second mortage, their kids, the health of their aging parents, the economy in very wide and basic terms
if you want a good conversation about stuff you go to people who don't have those mundane worries and can still talk about them in depth
rich people and young people
and I'm going out on dates with rich smart older women, most of them have families or are not interested in dating at all, as smarts and stopping caring about having a family seem to correlate in women a lot
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>>34584908
>>34584944
Foid detected
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>>34584786
>I would say 20 older. 18-19 are still teens. A balding 30 year old lusting after teens is creepy.
It's legal to date 16 year olds here, you can't do jack shit but cry
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>>34584765
No as of now, but I can sell you a license that allows you to do it. It's quite a bargain!
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>>34584786
How old have the world sexiest men been? Mid 40s on average. Men have something to gain and women have something to lose. Please grow up, or don't and marry the fat beat hags covered in some other dudes jizz.
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Women want older men because they're mature and have years to get their shit into the finish line.

You're old, at the start and immature. What do you have that a younger healthier man isn't
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>>34585194
Generally, money, confidence, life experience (with women), charisma.
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>>34585194
and we're kids until way late in life
except for a cousin that was born old (seriously, he made us clean the house without anyone telling him to), the rest of dudes I've known still behave like they're 17 way into their mid to late 20s
so it stands to reason that younger women that want something more stable and not a clown circus would want someone older
My last ex who I dated for years was 18 when I was 32 and we got along marvelously.
the previous one was around that age too
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>>34584920
>I've had better conversations with 19yo girls than with women my age to be honest
That says some very bad things about your maturity level.
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>>34584765
I’m 29 currently dating a 19 year old. Go for it.
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>>34585194
>You're old, at the start and immature. What do you have that a younger healthier man isn't

Well I'm a late bloomer due to health issues, I got my health back and sport playing ability, which I didn't have before.
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>>34585679
I'm just not a wage cuck, I've inherited the fortune of my family so I live a carefree life similar to people in their 20s
see how often rich dudes get young women too, they also wouldn't have anything to talk about with a defeated nurse working 100 hours a week
I tried dating normal working force women and they always end up resenting my carefree life
young women with a lot of free time and still living of off someone else's money just enjoy the ride.
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>>34584765
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>>34585695
Based, where did you meet.
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>>34586593
Locally. Slipped her instagram into my shopping bag after we bumped into each other and talked a bunch of times. Honestly thought she was older when we met but I got over it. The age difference seemed to bother me more than it ever did her. But she's a cool person. And we also are both avoidant type people so we kinda vibe well in knowing when we just want alone time. My ex was older than me and would freak the fuck out if I didn't reply to all her texts and calls quickly. I don't miss it.
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>>34584792
I used to think like that until months ago that a 22yo girl (i am 28yo, but look like early 20's too) is threating me to accuse me of SA, and reminding me everytime she knows something about me that i shouldn't try to approach ever again woman with that age gap, or she will make it public "what kind of person i am". Is a small city (~150k)
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>>34587729
What if you had auto immune issues that went away?
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>>34584898
You can feel any way you want. But don't expect anyone to understand your feelings.
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>>34587879
Imagine being 11 years in and out of hospitals barely able to walk and having fog brain with no clear time reference point. Then slowly shit gets cleared up and you can walk normally without pain and learn to drive and enter college. Would you go for a career woman your age or a freshman who shares your social status (student ID and scholarship).
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>>34584765
No, date women your own age
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>>34587729
>22 yo
Dude, you did nothing wrong, you should actually expose her and sue her. I hope you are collecting evidence. Don't be stupid.
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>>34587930
>No, date women your own age
Shut up cunt. It's legal to date 16 year olds here and there's nothing you can do
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>>34587930
Age is meaningless, life experience is what matters.
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>>34588059
Based
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>>34584765
>Am I allowed to
wrong question. if you're one of those guys who wonder if you'll look like a creep doing [XYZ], it means you don't approach women at all anyway

the real question is
>Am i able to

t. 45 yo man routinely dating 25-35 women
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>>34586390
Look, I'm not suggesting you *aren't* unusually immature, or that you don't have more in common with someone who is still in high school than you do with a grown-up. I'm simply pointing out that this isn't exactly something to be proud of, or to aspire to. On a purely practical level, a woman like this will automatically outgrow you in a year or two, because she is becoming and adult and you aren't, forcing you to go younger and younger (relative to your own age) until people are literally shouting "pedo!" at you in the street. The better long-term strategy is to actually grow up.
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>>34589762
Isn't age just a proxy for life experience, what if he was in a coma or didn't pass his full physical, people should pair up based on social status, not age.



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