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I am tempted to try dating apps. I'm currently broke and have no car. It's hard for me to fix my situation because I'm in college so I can't get a decent job until I finish my degree. So, I just want to try dating casually just to have experience meeting and talking to women. Maybe even finding friends. I don't like the idea of hooking up because I get addicted to things easily because of my ADHD. I'm also just terrified of losing my virginity in general. I'd rather lose it to a girl I really like which I doubt I'll find on any dating app
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>>34586508
>a girl I really like which I doubt I'll find on any dating app
If that's your attitude, please don't go on dating apps.

t. husband who met his wife on a dating app
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>>34586508
Yeah, definitely go for it just for the experience. I would recommend saying that you're saving yourself after the second or so date with the same woman, cause women can get really nasty if they think you're leading them on and aren't going to put out
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>>34586508
You can date on any basis that you like, so long as you're completely upfront about it; deceiving people about your intentions is not okay.

And the other anon is right: if you're prejudiced about the kind of woman you will meet on a dating app, don't go on the apps. Any kind of dating requires you to keep an open mind and be willing to be surprised.
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>>34586508
>Going on dates without any intention of having sex
you know what, this is a more solid plan than most anons have around here
you're not going to have sex with the first couple of girls you date if you're a virgin who's past the normal age for dating anyways so putting that expectation there will only lead to frustration
the way you're doing it sounds more solid, just meeting and getting to know people, and eventually once your socializing skills are better sex will happen naturally.
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OP is actually a genius for this, using the app to learn about people and improve your social skills instead of fishing for plap plap time may be the new strat
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>>34586606
>deceiving people about your intentions is not okay
says who
google 'scrub mentality sirlin'
that's you
>>34586508
a buddy of mine got his gf in the following way
>be kinda 4/10 guy, ugly but well spoken and funny at times
>go on dating apps stating explicitly "only looking for friends"
>meet random people
>keep on going out and meeting random people
>some woman introduces him to her friend
>date her
>gf
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>>34586508
>Going on dates without any intention of having sex

That's pretty much every girl on a dating app these days just be ready to cover all the expenses.
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>>34586651
>says who
NTA, but literally everyone who isn't a psychopath says that.
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>>34586725
you say "not a psychopath" I hear "loser"
take advantage of people as much as you can get away with, because the successful ones do NOT hesitate

in the context of dating / apps, this means telling women what they wanna hear. once you know how to talk to women, you'll have access to more pussy than you can handle.
OP's way is convoluted and not efficient but I guess keeping some sort of moral integrity is important to him. too bad.
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>>34586508
Why are you mutts so utterly fucking psychotic about meeting women?
You can just meet a woman , hit it off and have sex. Having sex doesn't oblige you to anything, and no you don't need to have money to enjoy awomans company and vice versa.
Seriously, what kind of retard psyop did you fall for? That you need to consooom real estate the sceond you nut inot a girl or something? Makes utterly no sense. No wonder that so many of you end up as incels when you refuse to have sex during fuck around prime time aka university.



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