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There's this really hot girl in my friend group, we flirt all the time, and she seems to be open to casual sex. The problem is, she's broke as fuck, hasnt even finished her bachelors, and recently got let go from her job as a children's entertainer. And she got some visa problems to boot. I'm way more financially stable than that and I'm worried I'll end up being her wallet.

I don't really want to have to bail her out of all of that, but I do want to smash, is it worth the risk?
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What risk do you think there is? Dont you have a spine?
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>>34586618
What if she thinks that because we had sex I now owe her money and support, and if I say no, she'll tell everyone I'm an asshole?
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>>34586586
girls who are financially insecure aren't looking for FWBs
>in my friend group
well, if you pump and dump, expect some backlash
how likely are your friends to take her side and turn their back on you when you dump her?
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>>34586631
Yeah, makes sense, it probably won't be a pump and dump. I think the guys would kinda get it, one of them is her ex. But pumping and dumping is not going to have any good consequences when I think about it. And I don't want to build a relationship with her, that I am sure of.
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>>34586650
>one of them is her ex
how did this guy handle the breakup
if he's still in the friend group you could try to pull something similar off
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>>34586653
He seems chill with it, they didn't have a huge fight, just got bored of each other. They had an open relationship kinda thing to begin with, but I don't know the details.
She's also 10 years younger than me, and there are a lot of red flags honestly besides her being broke. Classic situation, my mind is telling me no, but my dick is telling me yeah.
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>>34586586
Walk away if you don't want to be a wallet.
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>>34586586
Yes, you will 100% be her wallet and her surrogate daddy and she will come to resent you for it and cheat on you and tell everyone in your
>f r i e n d g r o u p
that you have a tiny dick and so did your father.
>I do want to smash, is it worth the risk?
No. Fuck someone who doesn't know all your male friends.
>>34586627
She's going to do that anyway no matter what if you fuck her. Don't shit where you eat, anon.
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>>34586586
Idk, I think it's fine. Just keep gifts at a minimum.



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