I work at a factory, and when I look around, I see everyone having fun, bantering with everyone else, except me. Nobody makes a funny remark when they pass me, nobody throws a ball of paper at me when I'm turned around, nobody stops for chitchat.And when I try to do it, it always comes out annoying, awkward, or outright creepy.Am I too uptight? What can I do to appear more outgoing?I don't think I'm unlikable, because when people get to know me, they seem pretty relaxed around me. But even then, they don't involve me in the light banter.Any ideas?
>>34586743
it can take time to be part of the group. you say nobody stops for chitchat but try observing your behavior. when somebody walks by do you say hi to them or do you wait for them to say hi to you? if youre alone with someone do you start tallking to them or do you wait for them to talk to you? most people are afraid to make the first move so if two strangers are in a room together and nobody makes a move the opportunity to become friends is lost
