>meet woman>she doesn't have much beyond food, family, and work/school to talk about>when she deviates into philosophy, she interpret things wrong or doesn't understand it at all>that's ok because new perspectives are fun and I don't mind explaining things>spend lots of time with her>I have schizoid tendencies but still act flirty seldomly, and compliment her often through metaphors (she doesn't always get it)>get told my eyes are glossy and that I'm not with her, which makes her lonely>it's true, I often daydream>sometimes I even forget she is beside me (I've been isolated for a long time)>we have sex often>always hug and kiss them>text them about my day>invite them to do things with me>be accused of me treating her like a friend, and me being the center>get ridiculed for not showing enough affectionDo most men lie and act to placate a woman's need for affection?I thought I was giving her enough, but she wants more.She's started listening for signs in my words that indicate I care about myself more than her. I thought women like getting updated from a man, and invited to do things?
>>34587195If you change anything you are doing to make her happy you are a simp.
>>34587195Sounds awful high-maintenance if I'm honest.I couldn't be bothered with this.>accused of me treating her like a friend, and me being the centerAny adult that hasn't yet realised that a person has to be their own centre is badly adjusted and likely to have a very overbearing, teenage attachment style.Prepare to keep constantly being policed for things you didn't do or say, is all I'm saying.
>>34587195Every time you want to slap the shit out of her, light up a smoke instead.Or grow some balls and say this to her face: Bitch, shut the fuck up and clean the damn house.
>>34587211I'm open to adapting. I've tried being less spacey, and I eat sea bugs and other food I normally wouldn't with her.I agree, it very simpish. It feels wrong to lie and say "I miss youuu!!" when I saw her 10 hours ago, and I slept 9/10 of those hours.Besides this, she's fairly well adjusted. But this preoccupation might be the end.I'd be kinda glad. She is 6 years old, and claps like a fag in public when she thinks of new food to buy and it embarrasses me
>>34587338kinda buried the lead, huh?
>>34587338>I'm open to adapting. That is because you are a simp. Women don't even know what they want, they just want to see if you're a beta who will do what they ask you to.
>>34587345what you're saying is partially true, but there is more to it. Maybe you know this, but you're just out to dab on woman (fair enough)>>34587344I suppose, my apologies
>>34587391>what you're saying is partially true, but there is more to it. Maybe you know this, but you're just out to dab on woman (fair enough)I adjust my advice depending on what the person needs to hear.
>>34587395good lad, cheers
>>34587195I don't think most men have to deal with this. She sounds insecure and badly adjusted, as in she thinks her insecurity is your problem to fix. I wouldn't lie to her. Be truthful even if it makes her feel insecure that you don't constantly miss her every second you're apart. Keeping up the lies will be really exhausting
