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I genuinely don't know what the fuck to do with myself anymore. I am 28 and I spent all of my 20s basically going to work and spending money to get into different hobbies. I always get bored. Literally nothing in this world interests me. I live to sit on the couch and watch tv and play video games. I'm really depressed and I recently took a week vacation and ended up just sitting in my apartment the whole time. I don't feel less stressed at all. I feel more stressed.
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>>34587666
Have you ever played Heroin Hero?
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>>34587692
Why would I ruin my life even more?
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>>34587666
Do you want any advice?
Or do you want to complain?
Grok is quite good at helping with social complaining
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>>34587823
I want advice
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>>34587666
>>34587981
Do you have friends? The way you phrase this makes it sound like you've spent the last eight years working and doing things alone. It's pretty cliche advice, but humans are social creatures, and its impossible to be happy long-term without friends.

Socialization releases serotonin, and your mind was built under the assumption you would regularly be socializing, so it relies on the serotonin you get from socialization to motivate you to do other things, or make you generally happy. Without socialization, your mind will produce less serotonin, and you will always feel very depressed, because you literally have less of the neurotransmitters associated with happiness.
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>>34587666
That's good monetary wise that nothing interests you. At some point you'll come across something that you want to pursue and you'll have the money to do it. Signing up to loser introvert/old people hobbies won't fix anything.
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>>34587666
>I'm really depressed and I recently took a week vacation and ended up just sitting in my apartment the whole time. I don't feel less stressed at all. I feel more stressed.
I relate to you somehow. Why did you not travel in your vacation?
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Suena que no tienes amigos no se deberías conseguir algunos salir y conseguir algo que te dé serotonina pq genuinamente la terapia para decir que te sientes deprimido termina con un montón de doctores imbéciles mandándote a intentar o metiendote tres kilos de pastillas que nisiquiera harán que dejes de sentirte miserable si no que no te dejen llorar lo que sería igual y peor que un bloqueo emocional si ya de por si te sientes de l mierda busca algo divertido que puedas controlar no drogas si no puedes con ello no alcohol por eso la gente termina siendo adicta talvez cosas menos dañinas no se me ocurre ninguna en el momento
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>>34588473
No, I don't have friends. I gradually started isolating myself in high school and by the time I reached my 20s, I gave up on the whole thing in general. Throughout my life I kinda saw a lot of relationships and friendships fall apart so I don't really put much value on it and it seems shallow.
>>34588536
I was going to but then I thought about it. What would I even do when I got there? I hate being outside in public. I hate people looking at me. So I just decided to stay home.



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