So I have this childhood friend who I love very much.He is the perfect chad, handsome, tall, SUPER INTELIGENT AND SMART, but above all very kind and humble. An Adonis, the perfect specimen. He drop out collage recently tho, but somehow he was making tons of cash.Last month he came out as bi and he said he is working as a male prostitute, doing both cam work and literal whoring!I think this is absurd, he has so much potencial and he is so intelligent, I can't bear thinking about the dude I used to play video games with is fucking old ugly faggots for a living. But everyone in our group of friends is acting like 1-Is no big deal. 2- None of my business 3- Rude of me to think I would dare suggest this is a bad choice for him.WTF?Isn't that what friends are for?
>>34587684It'd be good to voice your concerns. Let him know that you're worried about him and his long term wellbeing because his current choices carry a lot of inherent risk. The point where it would become excessive is if you cross the line between your responsibilities and his responsibilities. It's your responsibility to give the advice that will help him, and it's his responsibility to take that advice and follow it. If he refuses to listen, then there's nothing more you can do. You can't force smart choices out of somebody, because if it has to be forced at all then by necessity that person's choices are not smart. Some lessons take a long time to be learned, as well. He might brush off your advice now, only to realize that you were right a year from now. But you have to give the advice now for that to work, in the same way that you have to plant a tree now if you want to enjoy its shade in the future.
>>34587684Sounds like a wise man to me. We're all prostitutes in modern society, at least he's being up-front about it.
>>34587684>Isn't that what friends are for?No. You're allowed to offer advice, but ultimately you have to respect your friend's right to live his life as he chooses, and not as you choose.
>>34587719That's very wise.>>34587761It's part of his argument. When I said he needed to think about his future, he literally is in the process of acquiring 6 properties for renting and live off passively. So it's a good argument even if the life style is degenerate and open him up for dangers and possible health issues.>>34588063I know but it sounds like such a waste of potencial, it's a shame! How can people be so no chalant, it's like hearing someone is going to do meth and be fine with it. What about intervention is that what's expected of a friend?
You sound jealous to me, you should pay him and get what you actually want from him
