I've been trying to set up a date with this chick for like 3 weeks now. I was sick the first week, she was busy the entire second week and so far this week she isn't responding ans last week she said this week only Thursday is good. She's a terrible texter because apparently she works like 13 hour days as a nurse and has no time for anything ever. Its very annoying. Id kinda assume shed make some time for just one evening for one date but apparently that's really hard for her. All im asking for is like 4 hours at the end of the day for drinks, and she cant find any time for it. I haven't even met her yet.When we do text we get along pretty well and her responses are enthusiastic and with humor and genuine interest, just pretty unreliable when shell text back.This whole thing was actually set up by a mutual friend of ours. I've never had a serous date so I really wanna go out with her just to go on a date but of course im gonna get a girl who makes it a pain in the ass. I dont wanna give up until I see her just once, even though this is all annoying and suggesting a lack of effort on her part. Any anons deal with something like this?
she is not interested, move on
>>34587768Sorry, but you ain’t getting any.
>>34587768>All im asking for is like 4 hours at the end of the day for drinksafter a 13 hour shift in healthcare? I don't necessarily think you're being strung along because they really do work shifts like that and it's an exhausting job - just bear in mind you're up to 17 hours just with a shift and your four hour date - throw in getting ready and traveling time and maybe she just doesn't want to go to her next 13 hour shift absolutely exhausted just for the privilege of having had your company?On the plus side though if you do get it together nurses are usually fucking filthy in the sack so best of luck.
>>34587768as a medical staff myself, she needs to do the date on the day off. She is definitely too tired after work. Ask about next day off is she available, if she says no - then she is not interested.
>>34587885>>34587897OK ill believe this. But if they are so busy, how would I have a relationship with someone like this? Id never be able to be with them.
>>34587768You sound very selfish and just like a terrible person in general. move on so she can find a real man, not a manbaby.
>>34587922How? I just wanna go out with her and her being unavailable all the time is annoying and id imagine bad for anything long term. Im not saying she should fuck up her life for me.
>>34587937Ok so stop bothering her then
>>34587937Don't listen to them. They are just a retarded foid jealous that you're getting good advice and not being an asshole. As others said, ask her about her day off and if she says no just wish her good luck and move on. She knows how demanding her work is and if she can't put in the required effort for a relationship then that's on her and you shouldn't suffer for it.
>>34587993Yea I asked her yesterday and this morning what her schedule is like this week with no response. Ill ask once more this evening then just leave it up to her. As much as I wanna gf im not gonna beg for it.
Op here. So she gave me the old "I need to figure shit out" response so its all off for now. Idk what her deal is. Shits gay. Guess it's time for a drink
>>34587920You answered your own question. Move on
>>34588858You were strung along and when you finally pushed her to meet up she pulled the plug, pretty common on apps since women want emotional sponges
>>34589032We were going to go out one day with a reservation and everything, but I canceled it because I was sick. Then the next two time shes canceled it because of work and them because she "has to figure shit out"And it's not an app. Its normal texting and shes a friend of a friend. I think shes just got issues
