Hi, about 2 or 3 years ago I started dating a goth girl from my university. She's nice and pretty, she really likes me and I really liked her, or so I thought until I decided to break up with her. At the time I was very depressed for reasons I don't need to explain, and she wanted to go out all the time when I just wanted to be alone, but there's this problem that made me want to break up with her even worse: she stinks.She has a naturally bad odor, I don't know if she doesn't have good hygiene or if it's natural, but it's there. And it's not a normal body odor like sweat or anything like that, the best I can describe it is a slight smell of bad foot odor. You know when you wear the same socks for a long time and they start to stink? It's the same odor and I don't think it's her socks or shoes, I think it's her natural odor.Anyway. 2/3 years pass, we start talking again because we have to do some projects together. She's been looking really pretty lately, and to be honest, I'm incredibly lonely and haven't been able to date anyone else despite trying. I'm tempted to get back with her.But guess what hasn't changed about her? The same smell as before. It only took her sitting next to me to talk for the smell to automatically reappear.I'm thinking about getting back with her, but how do I talk to her about this irritating smell she has? Sometimes I wish I'd dated someone more feminine, someone who took better care of themselves, someone who smelled good. I'm not exactly a model of hygiene either; I can go weeks without showering if I could, but at least I make the effort to wear clean clothes and cologne. Is that asking too much? Am I being a jerk? I mean, I'm going to spend the rest of my life with her, so I just wish she would take better care of herself, at least.
>>34589007Say 'uh oh STINKYY' next time she comes near you
>>34589007Easy solution.Ask her if she just had a workout when she comes up to you.Then when she says no, ask her if she didn't have time to shower today.That will 100% get her thinking.
>>34589063The first part might work, but the second might be too on-the-nose.Gotta have something to follow the first part, though, because if she asks 'no, why?' you need an answer ready.
This is your body naturally signaling you to get away from her. You are not compatible
>>34589007just buy her presents like fancy soaps perfumes etc dumbass
>>34589007Sounds like a textbook marijuana addict. They all smell like that. Somewhere between skunk and gym socks.Just have to ask yourself... is it worth enduring nasty smell to not be alone?
The smell of feet is almost because of fungas present in one's hair, skin and clothes.You need to spray her down with an antifungal, especially in areas of perspiration and hair. Also wash all socks and underwear in hot water.
