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Anonymous
06/03/26(Wed)05:48:55 No.34589834

Anonymous 06/03/26(Wed)05:48:55 No.34589834

>has interests like drawing and coding
>Fairly good at said things
>Haven't touched any of them in months because sustained mental effort is stressful
>Gets bored of hobbies and jumps from one to the other
>Can be obsessed with something for months then would rather die then touch it for 6 months after
>Struggles to motivate myself to read books, needs to scroll mind control slop apps like Instagram to soothe myself
>Lies in bed on phone 90% of time, too tired to get out of bed and put effort into life
>If I do partake in hobbies, I have immense pressure that it should lead to a career somehow even though I'm a lazy undisciplined brain rotted zoomer
>I have no personality, I just scroll. Other people do things with their lives
>Currently jobless on govt assistance
>Struggles to remember what information I consume
My life is meaningless and ADHD is a hell that has fucked me my whole life for 23 years. Is there any escape from ADHD hell?

Anonymous
06/03/26(Wed)06:24:41 No.34589858

Anonymous 06/03/26(Wed)06:24:41 No.34589858

don't worry you fit just right in with the other zoomers. your personality/hobbies do not matter, what matters is the confidence and charisma (you dont have to know shit to be interesting/funny). learn the art of comedic timing, of showing/faking interest etc. and other sociopath tricks (known for centuries, ask ChatGPT to summarize the classic "How to win friends and influence people"). And go out practice that shit without taking rejections personally.

tldr: do not waste time on hobbies

Anonymous
06/03/26(Wed)06:38:53 No.34589874

Anonymous 06/03/26(Wed)06:38:53 No.34589874

>>34589858
>tldr: do not waste time on hobbies
not op but what else is there to do? wasting time masturbating or playing videogames? thats what most people do in their spare time regardless. also this "bash your head into the wall" mentality when it comes to socialization is super stressful and tiring, it feels like a complete waste of time cause it is. i dont want to go out and get burned over and over, there has to be another way. this world is such a joke

Anonymous
06/03/26(Wed)14:00:00 No.34590600

Anonymous 06/03/26(Wed)14:00:00 No.34590600

>>34589874
>i dont want to go out and get burned over and over
If you don't want to die alone, you have to. Good thing is you can drop the act once you have a gf

Anonymous
06/03/26(Wed)14:02:23 No.34590606

Anonymous 06/03/26(Wed)14:02:23 No.34590606

>>34589834
Effort and discomfort are a part of life unfortunately

Anonymous
06/03/26(Wed)15:45:14 No.34590963

Anonymous 06/03/26(Wed)15:45:14 No.34590963

>>34589834
find a higher purpose, setup blockers, eat a bunch of salt to improve energy and use nicotine patches, problem solved

Anonymous
06/03/26(Wed)17:33:01 No.34591339

Anonymous 06/03/26(Wed)17:33:01 No.34591339

>>34589834
Did you go to post-secondary for either of those?

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