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I'll cut to the chase I can't quit jerking off

And when I say can't, I mean I literally fucking cant. I have banned apps and websites on my phone, with passwords I dont even know (friend has the password) and my brain is so goonfried I will still find a way to wank off whether its porn on youtube or a laptop or whatever. I cannot be by myself and not at least look at porn once.

I want to quit because i'm religious and want to be serious about my faith. That and it's bad in general. It is fucking IMPOSSIBLE to get a woman now let alone have sex, and i'm told by people "marry young have kids" but that shit is just not happening with anybody. I would absolutely be married with 10 kids if it was feasible.

Anyway. If anyone, I mean fucking anyone, has been able to stop jerking off, please tell me how. The only way I might feasibly stop is if I went full Amish and never used the internet. Holy shit please help.
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>>34591919
One thing I learnt was that addictions like drugs, fapping, etc. don't happen because you're a hedonist. Maybe it starts that way as simple pleasure without seeing any risks, but it becomes a habit. Eventually it's not even that you want to do it, but it's an instant mood elevator. You are stressed out about this or that, it is driving you crazy, so you fap, feel good for a bit, and go back to baseline and can continue living your life. So if you want to try to quit anything, either resolve the issues that are stressing you out, or find a productive outlet for your energies, like working out.
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>>34591919
I have found prayer to be useful. I keep a rosary by my bed and, whenever I get those temptations, I pray Our Fathers until the feelings pass. Also, I recommend going no porn while still jacking off, that way you only have to quit them one at a time
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>>34591919
>I can't quit
> I mean I literally fucking cant.
>I will still find a way to wank off
>It is fucking IMPOSSIBLE to get a woman now let alone have sex
>The only way I might feasibly stop is if I went full Amish
You don't want to quit. Why bother writing this moronic wall of text. Take control of yourself or keep indulging. But avoid shitting up the catalog even more.



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