>be me>Got invited to a guy I knows church a few months back>Met some cool people who are chill to hang with and aren't arseholes>Go to church and enjoy listening to the sermons >Don't actually believe any of it though >Girl from the church confesses that she's had a crush on me this whole time>Went on a date with her today>Had coffee and sat in a park and chatted >Held hands and all that>But I didn't actually feel anything I enjoy this girls company and she's been a good friend. Hell she does get my dick hard, but the thing is that I don't actually believe any of the stuff. And I don't really want to commit myself to date a woman who is Christian. This sounds cruel to say. As well. But she has a number of chronic health issues that would mean she can't have kids.I don't really know what to do. I've had other women show interest in me, but I typically attract the BPD types >I had one stalk me for 7 months last yearand this woman is leagues above them due to the sheer fact she's not mentally ill.I don't really know what to do?
>>34594331>But I didn't actually feel anythingAll that other shit aside- this right here is what matters. If you dont feel it, you dont feel it. Its not worth forcing it.
>>34594331You say you didn't feel anything, but you also say she gets your dick hard. I don't think both of those things can be true.
>>34594331Sounds like she's a good moped
>>34594358I mean that in the sense of "I could fuck her" >Which I never felt with the BPD girls. Because quite frankly, they terrified the shit out of me with their fucking bat shit obsessive behaviour But the problem being that I don't picture myself spending my life with this woman, and she's Christian, the church lot all think I'm Christian now. But I'm not, I appreciate the teachings of Jesus. But all the fucked up shit that I've read and taken the time to read in the old testament, just made me even more affirmed in my disbelief of Christianity
>>34594405Marcion was right
>>34594416Genuinely agree with that statement completely. But the ring leader of the church group jumps up with "THAT'S HERESY" When I try and subtly discuss those ideas with the group.Ive tried proposing those "alternative" ideas as an outsider coming into a church group. But people bought up in church their whole lives live the sort of cognitive dissonance of "that's wrong think, and you're not allowed to question why">I do love to quote scriptures in the group that would support my view point.But it gets to the point where when you something that truly would question their world view, they shut down and pretend they're not hearing it
>>34594358Fact
>>34594331>Young Man meets Girl for the first time and wonders why it's not explosive like it is in the goy globohomo media Real life is not the same. I'm not even memeing.If you're finding the religion difficult to gap, you can have a conversation about it with her. She can find Jesus important, but since she has a crush on you - be honest and tell her you don't actually believe and that if she dates you, you respect her beliefs but you're not a believer, then let her make the choice. Girls (and any human) can do complete 180s for love, plus people going to church and falling in love... You're probably young, all of you. Therefore, don't turn down an opportunity before you feel like you missed out. I'm also saying this now as a dude who's seeing recent success on tinder, every girl is a new bag of worms. Have to have a conversation about STDs, who she's fucking, who she currently fucks, worry about things like having to lick another dudes cum off her pussy and knowing that she's getting pounded by others and you're just one more guy. Like, sex is nice, but you know what's nicer? Being chosen. As the sole person. I wouldn't let go of her as quickly as you do young one, beliefs aren't set in stone, people aren't set in stone, I think you're jumping the gun way quicker than you should, instead of toughing it out and trying to make it work by at least having the conversation to begin with. If you post about it on 4chan and make your choice at home without letting her make her own choice, you're self sabotaging actively. I would be having that discussion with **her**, and also from a place of "we can make it work" instead of a defeatist point of view, so long as you *both* agree that we can make it work. I wouldn't let go of an opportunity so easily, that's how you become a chud incel.Try, my man. Show that you care, try. You never know what this could blossom into.
>>34594331>Felt nothing on a dateThat part of your brain is dead
