There's a sort of "event" in my country called #NiUnaMenos which is basically a #MeToo but every fucking year, and of course, it involves rioting.On these 2 weeks, all women here get extremely insufferable and hate men x1000 more. This includes my wife, not a feminist.She's been sick with a long flu for like 5 days now (We all have though), she had a bad day and now she trashes our 2 boys (6 and 4) with things like "of course you're retarded, you're men and I'm paying for my sins" or "I made a grave mistake by having 2 male children, you are a burden, you are my sentence" and "I hope I die tomorrow and YOU don't have a wife and YOU BOTH don't have a mother, I'm fucking sick of you".I'm also sick of her so I want to divorce her. Issue is: I could have her recorded killing our 2 kids and dancing over their graves and the judge would still blame me, especially if I start it around this date or if I'm unlucky enough that the judge solves it around this date. They will give her EVERYTHING and they will not give a single fuck if I can't pay rent or food for myself.What the fuck do I even do bros?Also don't ever marry, it's a trap.
>>34594538>What the fuck do I even do bros?Record her doing this shit. Divorce her, she will destroy your two children. You're a fucking piece of shit if you don't divorce her and take the children away.
>>34594552Trust me, the judge won't care. It happens regularly. There're so many cases where they give the custody to the mom just because #menbad and it turns out she's a crackwhore or the like and she ends up killing the kid that it's amazing people still have children. The judge won't give a single shit and even if he did, her lawyer will say that it's illegal to record someone without her consent (True here) so they will discard the proof. I'm fucked anyway.
>>34594556I will divorce her though, I want a strategy to get the kids post-divorce or advice on how to handle it so that she can't have a single point against me at least seeing the kids.
I went through something similar with my parents. Mom was verbally abusive, divorced my dad, he tried to get primary custody of me but the judge wouldn't award it despite me explicitly stating that I wanted to live with him.First I would try talking this through with her and stating your concerns after this event is over, when she's no longer sick. I think you should be patient with her at first and potentially seek some sort of couples' counselling. I say this because she might not currently understand the full extent of what she's doing, and divorcing will also be traumatic for both you and your kids.If she refuses to change, then divorce is probably the best route. You might want to consult a lawyer before reaching this point. It probably won't be worth it to fight for full custody. As much as humanly possible, you don't want to create an adversarial relationship with your wife where you're basically fighting each other through the kids. Ideally you're still friendly and empathetic towards each other, trying to reach a mutual decision that doesn't emotionally or financially destroy the other person. It might seem counter-intuitive, but I'd also avoid influencing the kids into thinking their mom is a total villain as well. Just because it'll be painful for them to reach this conclusion, it could be a traumatizing conclusion in its own right. It'll also make her more combative if she finds out.Even if they're still forced to endure her abuse, if you're living separately and nearby with split custody, simply having a stable place they can stay where they're properly supported should do a world of good. Because you'd be countering the negative narrative she creates about them in a safe environment, through your parenting choices.
>>34594556what country is this? huh. need the context to figure out loopholes and law help. there are certainly other ways out of marriages besides through judges but I dont advise that in most countries unless you want to risk your kids growing up without either parent lol. depends on your country ig this sounds so weird
>>34594538Damn, I thought the US was bad. I'm sorry you had children with someone so insufferable. You need to do what you can to defend your boys. Reassure them that their mom is mentally unwell and that whatever she tells them is not their fault and you may have to have a lot of arguments with your wife about this that it is never okay to talk to your sons like this. Sounds like she has been the dominant one in your relationship for 6+ years though, so it's likely too late to fix her, especially with a country that has rioting male cancel culture every year.Happy Men's Mental Awareness Month.
>>34595214>what country is this?I was about to call you stupid for not thinking to look up the hashtag OP provided, but it may not necessarily be Argentina, could be just about any of the South American countries. It is one of those things where if you don't live there, you probably won't understand the culture. #NiUnaMenos appears to be anti-killing of women, however like #metoo being anti-rape and anti-sexual harassment toward women, the hashtag is likely being misused and your average man is just being accused of being a killer/rapist without any real cause. At least, that's what I understand from OP comparing it to #metoo. Very sad. We should be against the killing/rape of women, but not using it as a put-down toward men.
>>34595252>Damn, I thought the US was badI feel like "toxic feminism" is extremely rampant world wide right now except maybe the most hardcore male countries (like arab ones) and its taking a toll on the world. Like I used to think it was just a psyop for the US but if it was its everywhere now and doing worse damage in countries not prepared for it. >>34594538OP the only thing I can think of to help with so little is to get support from women ironically. You might think this is counter intuitive but I have been in a custody battle for a year and a half and I can tell you that the biggest enemy of women are other women hands down. Get a woman lawyer and a woman judge and they will see through her bullshit instantly.
>>34595595No arab countries have feminism too and it can be worse than western countries. Look up marraige laws in egyptt. Egyptian
>>34595607I think i need to add something here for my fellow westoidsIn egypt if your wife cheats on you, and gets pregnant, you will be forced to take legal responsibilty to her child even if DNA tests say otherwise, the child can even inherit your wealth. Why is that? Because islam has a rule that states that "the child is for the bed" which means that even if he is not your child but you are married to this woman youll have to raise them as yours, even if DNA tests say otherwise, many men committed suicide over this islamic lawMuhammed is a pedofile bitcht. The egyptian guy above again
