>soon 25>bullied and ostracized all my life>never had any frens never gonna have any due to scandinavian social enviroment>177cm so never had any interest from any girls>never had a gf>go out at saturday night to buy a milkshake cause forgot to buy ice cream>all the guys are atleast half a head taller and have gfs>1 tall chad with 2 blonde,Literal suicide fuel, 177 in a nordic country is the same as a 5'5 guy in the usa... one step closer to killing myself. How do yall cope? I dont even wanna go out after 20:00 anymore in this summer town.... Man im starting to hate women so shallow in all aspects, what would u do? Average to slightly above average face
>>34594877Travel to Africa or Southeast Asia.
OP is making shit up again. He does not want a girlfriend, he only wants to whine.
>>34595138Wrong
>>34594877>>>/r9k/
>>34597128No
>>34598265Bump, someone answer me
>>34594877I'm 174cm in Sweden, and I've gotten laid, you genuinely just need to learn good social skills and be likeable, then expose yourself to a lot of social situations. Looks matter, but not as much as you think. One of my coworkers is a 165 Bangladeshi who is married, and I know a guy who is balding at 21 and still has a gf, they're not the most popular with girls ofc but they are likeable and not shy. Women in Scandinavia are also especially forgiving when it comes to looks compared to the US, I've seen all shapes and sizes of guys get laid because they are likable, intelligent or so on. Be honest with yourself, do you have 1. A solid character with actual merits and good traits to offer?2. The ability to make people enjoy being around you?3. Confidence to be upfront about your intentions and feelings?
>>34599701I do 1 and 2 but I may fail at 3 but because i never talk to any women, not because i wouldnt be honest. the only way to find women is to use tinder ect. But i get no matches because of looks and height. So how can i be upfront?
>>34599718Well, if a girl seems to be enjoying spending time with you and you think she's cute, you simply express that to her.Obviously it's all way more complicated in real life but if you really had to boil it down to its bare essentials its just about get her to respect you on some level (being intelligent, hygienic, having a job ect) and making her feel like she's having a nice time and is at ease around you (read body language and social cues) then you pay her compliments, tell her what you like about her and so on.As for meeting girls, it kinda depends. Here in Scandinavia, I'd say it's way easier to meet girls through things like courses, work, school, etc. (Take a course in something you find interesting, either you'll meet a girl or ingratiate yourself into a wider social life if you are actively social). Tinder, Hinge, and so on are incredibly vain and not worth your time.Also if you ingratiate yourself in the right social circles then parties are a extremely good way to get laid or meet a girl, most of the times I've gotten laid in my life was 16-18 when I was out partying all the time. Its more fast paced, less socially restrained and women are generally less picky at parties.
>never had any friendsStopped reading there, you most definitely have severe rejection sensitivity and catastrophizing impulse. Try putting in some effort
Mysteriousmaxx, pretend like you're a celebrity avoiding paparazzi. Sunglasses all the time, and always move with purpose. You dont wanna be that weird guy waiting in line for his ice cream. Take your order on the phone, pay when you get there, stay less than 2 minutes. Own a presence in a space. Be him
