>be me, 35M>asexual, bald, and honestly pretty ugly inside and out>have this online best friend, 26F>we live in completely different countries>she is an absolute angel, way out of my league in every possible sense>the problem: I think I'm completely in love with her>she knows I'm ace, and I'm pretty sure that's a big part of why she only sees me as a platonic friend>between my asexuality, the age gap, the massive long distance, and my own insecurities, I feel like I have zero chance>I haven't said a word to her about this because I'm absolutely terrified of making things weird and losing her friendship entirelywhat do I do, /adv/? do I just bury these feelings forever so I don't lose my best friend, or is there any way to navigate this?
Say your conversations with her encouraged you to fly over to her country to check it out, and ask her to meet up a day or two
>>34594998I've never understood this if I have feelings I always tell them. Why can't you do the same?
>>34594998Sounds like she will take the lead and message you. If you do date, it's best to give her control over everything sexual/romantic. Because of being ace remain calm and accepting during and see it as a special bonding time with your best friend.
>>34594998>between my asexualityHow are you asexual, you can't get it up?
>>34595952There's no need to
