A girl I've been seeing for over a month now is a really dry texter. She often will just ghost me for hours or end any potential conversations I try to start with extremely dry responses. She's never the last one to text either. I wasn't really bothered at first because she's just kind of a shy and quiet person in general. But its starting to bug me a little bit because we only are able to see each other in person a few times a week. Am I just being too needy? I haven't said any of this to her.
>>34595412This was the exact fucking same situation with my (ex)gf two years ago. Wow.It drove me up a fucking wall, but eventually (after several months) I just adapted and got used to it and didn't bother me anymore. I just accepted that's how she is. But she also did open up a bit more over time and started being more proactive in reaching out to me first, which alleviated the bad feelings very nicely. God I miss her.Anyway, hopefully she will open up to you more in time. Another tactic that worked was by pulling away and not reaching out on my own, which was a gamble, but it paid off after an utterly agonizing week and I won out in the end and she started reaching out on her own like I said above. Maybe give this a try if your patience reaches its limit, but you must remain steadfast.
>>34595412One possible reason could be that she hates texting. Try calling her
>>34595509I would hate lukewarmness so much. Sorry that happened to you and to >>34595412 OP.I think you can have success with such girls, but personally it bothers me a lot. I like the heavy yappers who wear their heart on their sleeve much more than the stuck up bitches or shy/busy/inexperienced girls.
>>34595412She's not really interested.
>>34595949either this or shes busy having sex. Either way, if you gotta do all the work, theres no point.Women are like cars, they have to move independently. If you need to get out and push them, its over.
>>34595509I feel like I’ve been pretty understanding especially cause she’s self aware of it and apologized before for it. Its still early in the relationship so I’m just gonna stay patient for now but it’s starting to create doubt in my mind that wasn’t there before.
>>34595949>>34595969She hasn’t given me that impression. When we meet in person she’s all over me. I think it’s just the type of person she is and she seems kinda insecure about it cause she’s said things to me before like she hopes I don’t get bored of her or sorry for not having a lot to say. She’s a really nice girl I guess I’m just not used to dating someone so reserved. She’s actually similar to me in that regard so having to be the person that drives all conversation is a struggle.
>>34596632>When we meet in person she’s all over meTry and fuck her if it fails she's desperately looking for a pal/pet and then you walk.
>>34596934we've been fucking since the first date
>>34596632>>34595412>>34596957ask to call or video chat her like some other anons said. She's clearly interested but hates texting, I'm the same way so I get it. Honestly she might not want to do that either because if she's shy/reserved she probably is sitting at home super invested in some movie/show/book/game or whatever and its probably not personal to you. Ask her to set time aside to call you so she can plan it around her busy day of being an introvert and consuming media.
She's not gonna change. So either you are or you will deal with it.There's a lot of girls I know who will only chat via text or video call or won't at all. I have a feeling if I was better looking or a millionaire it would change.
>>34596957damn, well then train her throat then you homosexual, make her cook for you while you sodomize her asshole What else do you want?
>>34595412>girl doesn't bla bla bla all day and wants to talk less than even you doYou've struck gold, marry.
>>34595412She knows what she’s doing and is willing to do it to (you). hate the game I guess
>>34596968>Honestly she might not want to do that eitherYea we play games online sometimes and she didn’t want to talk in voice at first. Honestly I think it’s just the kind of person she is and I’m just being a needy insecure baby. She’s a really good girl.
