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Should I text a girl I like on her birthday? She left me on delivered in December.
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>>34595984
asking this is so sad xdddd
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>>34595987
Why?
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>>34595984
Sure, just don't expect a response

And the English is "left on read", chief, not "delivered"
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>>34595984
My advice is to do it the next day and do not tell her happy birthday the previous day. This way she will probably at least think of you.
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>>34596052
It didn't show as read though, just delivered
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>>34596060
Oh, that's weird, I've never seen that before, I just assumed you were ESL and it said an equivalent to 'delivered'
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>>34596060
omg thats even worse, she just read the message through the notification and didnt even want to give you an answer by giving you "read". Abort the mission.

Also, similar thing happened to me recently. A girl I almost had sex with left me on delivered after my awkward fumble.

Dont. Just dont.
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>>34595996
>girl doesnt bother to open my chat
>do i still ask her for a crumb of that pussy 6 months later?
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>>34596067
>>34596074
I'm thinking she might've actually not noticed it or she did and wanted to respond later but forgot. It's weird because irl we talk normally (we take the same classes). I didn't want to text her because it still felt weird after her not answering me months ago but now it's her birthday so idk.
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>>34596084
>she might've actually not noticed it or she did and wanted to respond later but forgot
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>>34596084
How do you manage to be so optimistic? you have to teach me
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>>34596242
I just don't want to give up because of assumptions
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>>34595984
no
She forgot you months ago because she has no interest in you.
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The truth is, if she was interested in you she would’ve messaged you back eventually. When you have a crush on someone you check them out right?
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no, this is pathetic
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>>34596084
bro if she really cared about you, she would have at least checked twice, don't you think?
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>>34596059
do this. also it depends what you actually want to text her. if it's just happy birthday sure, at least make it funny. then again women are retarded to you just showing courtesy on a fucking birthday might make her think you're simping. so on second thoughts, fuck her.
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I'm a loser when it comes to women. I have anxious attachment which gives them visceral ick in this era of nonchalance in the dating market.
Don't do it. Or, if you do, keep it short and simple and don't expect anything else to come of it. Other anons are right in saying that you would probably know if she were interested in you, and you can't make excuses for someone who doesn't show interest. Sucks, but that's life. If you get along well in-person, cool, but I think she probably would just want to be friends. Maybe shoot your shot IRL rather than over text if you really want to make a move.
As an aside, texting is a horrible game when it comes to dating and romance. It's become so integral but it leaves so much to be desired. Talking IRL avoids that question of "is she ending the conversation or did she forget to reply?" and you get feedback in terms of body language, facial expressions, etc., plus it's just more dynamic and engaging. Fuck texting, all my homies hate texting



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