I met a girl on tinder that told me she has lots of casual sex, she texts me a lot and I won't lie, she is really attractive. The thing is, I'm a christian and I'm trying to rectify my life as a result of my shamful mistakes that I did in the past. The issue is that I am weak and she has really big boobs and it's the first time someone like that has shown me any interest
>>34596850Since you're asking, probably not. You will just catch feelings for her since you don't have other options.
That's the devil tempting you. Cast her out.
>>34596850Pump and dump bro. What's the issue? She has a higher body count of you don't worry about it
>>34596861Also this, you probably get oneitis on the whore since you don't get any pussy
Block her and move on. If you don't it's because you purposely want drama and bullshit in your life.
imagine believing some some stupid sky daddy is judging your every move. what a miserable existence. just bust nuts bro youre gonna be dead one day
>>34596850>>34596886as a virgin that was saving myself, I say to you just do it.> just bust nuts bro youre gonna be dead one dayalso this
>I'm a christianThis is your future
>>34597099I mean I'm not really a virgin, I had three sexual encounters with three different women, only blowjobs because I couldn't get hard enough to penetrate them. That's why I am trying to be serious because not only I'm paying for my sins of watching henious porn with putrid fetishes but I also ended up hurting those girls because I wasn't that much into them (although I did say multiple times I wanted something casual) but yeah I'm paying for my sins now
>>34596850Sometimes it’s not enough to be told not to be stupid. Sometimes you have to learn the lesson yourself. I did
>>34597115You had three times. How do you not know if you want the fourth?
>>34596850Dude you have to taste that atlest once before looking for a good wife.
>>34597268Because the last one was a disaster, she caught feelings and I didn’t and felt really guilty afterwards
>>34596850>I'm a christianNo you aren't. Real Christians forgive past sins, they don't judge people for them. Judge not, lest ye be judged; and let him that hath no sin cast the first stone. You are no Christian.
>>34597470He didn’t judge anyone you tard.
>>34597470Well, first off, being christian doesn't mean being morally perfect and I never said I was. My second point would be that I said she has lots of casual sex, that's a fact, she has told me multiple times, that's her life and her choicesAll I am saying is that I don't think it would be a good idea for me to go down that route, judging her would be assuming things about her without getting to know her first, we text and talk pretty much everyday so all I said were things she herself has told meAnd lastly, you were the one judging so prsctice what you preach first>Matthew 7:3“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?
>>34596850I feel for you OP ive been in your shoes. Only real advice I can give is that you should only choose on direction in life.Right now you are neither being chrislike nor letting go. If you want to follow after Jesus stop even entertaining ideas like these, or just let religion go and live the best life you can.Any option is better than fence sitting.
>>34597603>And lastly, you were the one judgingYes, but I'm not a Christian, so I don't give a fuck. You are, which makes you a hypocrite. A whited sepulchre (Matthew 23:27).> judging her would be assuming things about her without getting to know her firstIt doesn't mean that at all! God, it's really quite tragic how little Christians understand about Christianity. No, it doesn't mean that. As a Christian, your single greatest duty is to forgive people. It's right there in the Lord's Prayer: forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive them that trespass against us. In other words, your sins will only be forgiven by God to the extent that you forgive other people for what they have done. Matthew 7:1-5 does indeed apply strongly here - to you, not to me. So does John 8:3-11. So does Romans 12, especially verse 19. And there are plenty of others. What they all come down to is that when you say this woman is a bad person because she has been promiscuous, that is something that you, as a Christian, are not allowed to say or think. Condemning someone for their sins is something only God is allowed to do, not you. ("Judge not, lest ye be judged" - Matthew 7:1). The fact that you are condemning this woman for promiscuity means that *you* are being a bad Christian. You need to cut that shit out right now, otherwise God won't forgive you for what you have done.
>>34597751She never trespassed against him you tard.
>>34597883And yet he is treating her as if she had, which makes it even worse.
>>345974661/3 or higher chance of disaster. You have your answer. Talking about it wouldn't make anything better.
>>34598272No he isn’t you fucking tard.
>>34596850Aren't you christcucks supposed to be all about forgiveness?
>>34596850>>34597470You have an infantile understanding of what "judgement" constitutes. Christ instructs us to be merciful and generous toward others, but this does not in any way mean we must turn a blind eye to immoral behavior. In fact, we are encouraged to admonish others for their sins to bring them back to God (James 5:19-20). OP is making the right call in trying to resist a sinful encounter with someone whose life revolves around hookups.>>34597751>I'm not a ChristianYeah, everyone can tell. You're arguing in bad faith and omitting all the verses that call followers of Christ to correct their own and others' behaviors to be more ordered toward God's will. Believe it or not, Christ's policy wasn't exactly "live and let live." He drove the money changers out of His temple with a whip.>when you say this woman is a bad personOP never called her a 'bad person.' He didn't even imply that - he just said that she is promiscuous (which she is) and that it probably isn't a good idea to get into a relationship or hook up with someone like that (and he's right). >The fact that you are condemning this woman for promiscuity means that *you* are being a bad Christian. You need to *blah blah blah*You don't understand what it means to 'condemn' someone, you don't know what it means to be a 'Christian,' and you can't read. You need to go back. P.S. I found a picture of you. Nice glasses.
>>34598494>yeah bro just forgive her man like isnt your belief system all about doing whatever you want all the time? haha who are you to judge?First, what could OP possibly forgive her for? They're texting over an app - she hasn't said or done anything that can be considered a transgression against him, nor has he implied that he feels that she has 'wronged' him. Second, the implication that not turning a blind eye to someone sleeping around when discerning whether you should enter a relationship with them as being antithetical to 'forgiveness' is beyond retarded.
>>34596850>trying to rectify my life as a result of my shamful mistakes that I did in the pastSo the best way to do that is use the tinder app? Some of you are retards.
>>34596850Read Ezekiel 23, read Hosea, consider if you want to go through this.
>>34596850Shamefur disprayYou already know what's right and wrong here. You can lie to yourself and cope but we know the truth... And God does too
>>34597342This anon is the only one with any sense in this thread.
