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so i really like to draw and paint (i'm somewhat really good at it) and i'd like to start posting about it, also i have an alternative clothing brand where i print my own t shirts and i post stuff about my work. i have a "femcel" friend who told me "men shouldn't show their interests or post too much on instagram", ¿is it really that way?, ¿do women find "cringy" when a guy posts about his life? i discussed this with her and we came to the conclusion that the only thing that matters is if you're attractive, if you are, you can fucking post i don't know, dragon ball edits and women would still want you
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that woman is retarded. women love attention (well they love if youre famous). there is no downside to having social status if your goal is to get women. also being popular on social media has the added bonus of you being seen by women. youll have more luck finding a gf posting reels on instagram than you will making a dating profile.
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>>34598038
>¿is it really that way?, ¿do women find "cringy" when a guy posts about his life?
I'm my opinion, I don't think so...I actually find it very interesting to know about people interest :), or what they like ... Also looks give people a lot of "free passes," but saying it's the only thing that matters feels like an exaggeration :o... Plenty of women think a guy constantly posting for attention is cringe regardless of how he looks.... how is it going with your brand?
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>"men shouldn't show their interests or post too much on instagram"
Expand that statement. Men are expected to post certain types of content on social media. Posting too much implies having no life, which neither male nor female should do.
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>>34598308
well, she said "men should only be able to post ONE photo per month" and "not on feed, do it on stories" and also it shouldn't always be a photo of yourself...
but the type of girl i'm going into it's the "femcel 4channer archetype" (she's that kind of woman) and she told me that specific kind of girls like the "40followers, no profile pic, 2 photos, one of his pet, one of himself from years ago" kind of men, and i've seen it before... i don't know, i just think she's a crazy bitch but she has a point.

>>34598262
it's going well, it's an alt clothing brand so it kinda helps me find the type of girl i'm looking for, too
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>>34598354
damn i wrote that first reply like a fucking monkey, sorry about that.
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>>34598038
Different women find social media presence necessary for attraction or a deal breaker altogether. Just be a guy who’s good at what he does and expresses himself as authentically as he can and you’ll be covered in pussy gravy bro, assuming you don’t have something else wrong with you but I don’t get that vibe
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>>34598354
Damn anon :p lol...also what exactly are you looking into someone? I mean I get femcel 4channer archetype, just curious...
I'm glad your brand it's going well :)
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>>34598416
there's this girl i really like, we have the same taste in music/movies/anime/etc and i keep stalking her social media (we follow each other though) and i keep postponing talking to her because i don't feel "enough" (even though she's a normal woman i guess).
we had one interaction through dm's, i sent her "hey can i talk to you in 7 months", she replied "?", i replied "i'm just a chudcel freak right now and i want to be better so we can be happy together" to which she replied "of course i will, my love", i replied "just wait ok? i'll get my IT internship and i will take you out", she my message and it ended there.
my femcel friend told me i'm a fucking pussy because I (somewhat) ended that conversation

>>34598377
i mean i'm a normal dude just some people (specially normie women) called me a "school shooter" sometimes, even one time i deactivated my account and a girl texted me through facebook telling me she was worried i might have killed myself, which is bad but at the same time good because the kind of women i like... kinda... like that type of guys? idk.
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>>34598473
It's okay anon, I can relate to the feeling of not being enough...it has happened to me a few times :c , but even so I'm glad you could interact with her even for some moments ...Also, I don't think you're a pussy for ending the conversation :p, I'm sure you were just thinking about how things will be like when you feel confident and enough to talk to her again:)

>called me a "school shooter"
That's so mean :c

>because the kind of women i like... kinda... like that type of guys? idk.
Lol, I think they do...even I as a girl sometimes get surprised by the type of guys other girls find attractive ...not judging just a bit surprised
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>>34598473
Bro I'm going to be real you seem like a cool guy but you sold so hard with that conversation lol
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>jealous femcel doesn't want you to succeed in life
Cut contact with her
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>>34598038
An image that made me stop and appreciate :) thank you friend!
Did you make it?? That's so fucking awesome!!! I loooved that game ;((( it's sooooooo nostalgia for me!!!
And now you reminded me of that tower defense game, with the fancy wizard towers, and I remember the color green, and blue, it was a beautiful game. The towers looked like nature!! Do you know the game I'm talking about maybe?? It was 3D and beeaaautiful for the time
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>>34598473
you seem like an interesting guy with a few options



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