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My dick doesn't work. I have a porn addiction but I am trying to quit and after years of trying I can say it's getting easier to not watching it

The thing is, I was a major degenerate, to the point where I tried to use Pringles cans as fleshlights. I tried to have sex three times with three different women. I was never able to get hard enough to penetrante

Maybe this is the price for my sins, who knows. But how can I make peace with the fact that no woman will ever want me?
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How old were you when that happened?
I'd like to know how many years of porn-addiction I've got left
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>>34602924
it can start as early as your mid-twenties and if you're asking how long you've got, then you haven't got long.
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Start your walk with the lord
Join Christian dating app
Insist strictly on no sex before marriage
Girls will appreciate you are the one guy not trying to get in their pants
Marry one of the girls from the app
She's stuck with you now

...or just make a goodrx appt and get a script for some cialis for a few bucks from your local pharmacy
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>>34602943
Unfortunately, at least in Catholicism, you have to have sex after marriage for it to be "valid" the whole "two flesh become one" thing. Where I'm from, most people are Catholic so if I found a Christisn girl she would probably practice catholicism. I wonder if there's a way to fix it through divine intervention or this is meant to be my punishment for my sins
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>>34602606
Never had sex
Is being hard important to penetrate? Like how hard? Most women arent attractive enough for me to go 100% hardness in the first 5 minutes i think, can i penetrate with 50% hardness?
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>>34602606
>>34603187
I was a foreveralone gooner who randomly got a gf and starting having sex. She's gone now.

When we first started having sex I would lose my erection at some point. I think it was a combination of porn addiction making real sex boring, and being out of shape. I really underestimated how physically demanding sex is for a man. Especially in missionary position. It got better over time. I started taking tadalafil daily. and I just became less anxious about it.

If I were you I would take sildenifil before sex or daily tadalafil, that will really help get you going. Hopefully you have a partner that is patient and engages in foreplay and does things to make you exciting. My ex was basically a dead fish which is one reason it was so uninteresting. Do cardio to build your stamina and really strengthen your core. You need to hold yourself up in a plank position while thrusting for a long time. It can be exhausting.
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>>34603222
Lol, just get a GF who can ride, dead fish are no good
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>>34602606
bump
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>>34602606
>My dick doesn't work.
>I was never able to get hard enough to penetrante
When was the last time you had an erection? Does not have to be a natural one, can be through the use of porn too.
Fixing your dick > fixing your porn habit

>major degenerate
>I tried to use Pringles cans as fleshlights
Lol, how is this majorly degenerate? I think this is pretty funny but not so degenerate. Being a heroin junkie who cooms all over himself and eats his own cum is what I consider a major degenerate. You sound like just another dude who just got a little bit out of control with porn and has PIED. For now.

>my sins
No need to be so heavy on yourself, (sexual) shame/guilt will only be an obstacle. You are just another human with weaknesses/imperfections.

Nofap will help you to a degree in fixing your dick (since it caused overstimulation and reset your dick to get morning wood again) but sex or no sex before marriage is an entirely different discussion and I assume you just want your dick to work so you can fuck?

>make peace with the fact that no woman will ever want me?
This is not a fact. Key here is you wanting you, with a limp dick or not. Make peace with yourself first.

PS I love the profile picture.
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>>34608433
>since it caused overstimulation and reset your dick to get morning wood again
A bit confusing here but obviously I meant that porn caused the overstimulation and that reasonable nofap (7-30 days) can reset it. NoFap worshippers (especially the religious ones) who try to go 30+/100+ days and are usually disgusted by sex just have issues with their sex drive and volcels will just become very ill and resentful humans (priests) because they kill their sex drive. Sex is good for you. Nietzsche talks about this.



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