How do I meet people postgrad (not that I did anything at university I commuted) if I'm a male, introverted, have social anxiety, and it's taboo to talk to people without context or being in a group? I'm just bored and I want to entertain myself by going to social events, I can mask my sperginess temporarily with individual people but I can't do it in social events. I don't think I'm ugly or anything but I do have a RBF.
>>34604002Talk to me bby boy <3
>malenon-issue>introvertedsocializing is a skill you can learn>social anxietyyou are anxious because you are inexperienced. the only way you can get over this is by talking to more people.>taboo to talk to peoplenoin adult society there are no rules. if you want to talk to anyone just do it. they might respond or they might, it doesnt matter. you can ultimately do whatever you feel like doing.
if you want to meet people the best way is to find a place you can go to consistently where you can meet people around your age. it could be a dance class, gym, volunteer community, etc. it could even be your job. theres so many possibilities.
>>34604002Language class. You’re forced to talk with each other to practice conversation.
