Im not bad looking Im 6ft, but I find most girls unattractive because they are all so fucking basic, and they are so fucking lame. But my mum is always "When ru getting a girlfriend?". And it stresses me a lot because I dont like most women, does anyone know how I can find girls that like the same stuff as me?
lower your standards.
>>34605663WDYM LOWER YOUR STANDARDS
>>34605668if you dont have a girlfriend and havent had a girlfriend for so long your mom is nagging you about it, then you shouldnt be saying all women are basic and unattractive. you need to lower your standards. do you have casual sex or are you also a virgin? if you are having sex with these women at least you know you're attractive and not weird. if you're not having sex then you are unattractive and/or weird. and you'd need to lower your standards.
you sound underage or really young at least. Nobody is going to match 1 v 1 your exact interests especially not a girl. You've probably boxed yourself in to an identity that is way too niche and you are isolating yourself because of it.You need to get out of your internet echo chamber otherwise you will stay alone forever. This is a problem that is happening to people more and more because there are more things to be interested in than ever and you feel like you can never connect with anyone because nobody has ever seen or will ever care about this one very specific anime that came out 30 years ago. You should keep your interests more broad and just be more open minded to connecting with other people that are similar to you in general personality rather than specific interests.
>>34605690Having sex for just sex and not making the love its disgusting to me
>>34605704Team fortress 2 mge and building servers its not niche
>>34605653Just tell her you're into men OP, it might be true in your case anyway from the sounds of it.
>>34605751Im kinda into dudes. But I dont think my mum would want that
>>34605762Fuck what your mom says bro you can’t wife up other men, me personally I'm waiting to reach the age where women can't wait much longer to have kids anymore so I don’t need to do pic rel
>>34605724lower your standards
>>34605780are those even standards?
>>34605793yes. you think there is some magical "perfect woman" and "perfect sex" out there so you're sitting in your room waiting for it to fall into your lap. meanwhile there are women out there who would date you that you arent giving the time of day. you need to gain some experience and go on dates with women or you're never going to find something real. you're just seeing surface level shit and saying "no" without giving anyone a chance.
>>34605653>>34605777My problem is that many relationships just feel non-genuine. going to an app and having to set a profile, listing hand-picked things about you that you think will increase your chances, putting a good picture, scrolling and finding someone who did the exact same thing, only for us to set a date and having to do like a peacock and show my feathers just feels unnatural as hell.Ideally I think people should meet on a mora natural environment they share, like in work or in a class or in some chance, fated meeting. Opportunities where you get to share real moments with the person.Dating apps suck ass, it feels dishonest.
>>34605854While you're right, that's kind of just how things are these days since there aren't many places unmarried men and women hang out together anymore except for university.
>>34605854>having to do like a peacock and show my feathers just feels unnatural as hell.what peacocks do is the most natural thing in the world. you're confused and making up weird excuses because you're scared and autistic
>>34605874Women dont hang out with anyone at uniThey show up on campus, headphones on, eyes LOCKED on phone screen. They go to class, when the professor speaks, they take the headphones off. The instant class ends, the headphones go back on, the phone comes out. They then leave campus. At no point do they talk or interact with anyone.You're thinking of uni from 20 years ago.
>>34605874>except for university.>tfw studying CS
>>34605874>>34605780>>34605663 guess. I suppose I could lower my expectations, but at the same time I don't really want to, at a personal level.I don't mind being single that much, and being with someone who might just make things worse in the long run doesn't feel very appealing.It's more for social expectations than anything, and again, that feels dishonest to both me and the other person.
>>34605902In the natural world yes, where animals don't have to worry about personality and views on life and such, it's just about who is stronger or quicker or flashier, but in the human world there needs to be a connection, since humans are complex creatures with complex personalities.
>>34605926>might just make things worse in the long runenjoy being alone forever. people who think this way never get out of it. they doom themselves because it's safe.
>>34605926I'd recommend at least giving it a shot to see if it's for you. I felt similar to you in my early 20s, but after living decades alone it does wear on you. I'm 30 now and having to play catchup, so if you decide you change your mind later on it would be good to not start from zero like I am.
I honestly think that dating apps are fucking bullshit, and they always make you pay for the subscription. Its feels weird and most girls just want a quick hookup and just that.
>>34605653I never even had sex until I was 29 and then I randomly met a really cute girl that likes anime and plays video games and is very reserved. And she actually liked me too. All I can say is I got lucky.
>>34606030lucky
>>34606030Based Whitepillchad
