You don't have to deal with breakups, divorce or whores. The dog is more loyal than women. Consider yourself lucky.

>>34606203
That kinda cope doesn't really help

>>34606205
Drugs

>>34606240
Don't do drugs

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>>34606278
Drugs are a shit way to cope, I've seen where it leads

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>>34606200
Comparison is the thief of joy and desire is the root of all suffering. The only times I'm interested in women is when I'm surrounded by women that make me feel out of their league. The only times I care about the fact that I'm a virgin is when normies start talking about how good sex feels.
Do with this information what you will. We probably need that pain to act. We need stress to perform, type shit. But remember that the only reason we have these feelings in the first place is because we compare ourselves to other people.

>>34606334
Nah nigga, I'm old enough that it stop being psychological and turns biological

>>34606335
Even so you can adopt a positive attitude about what I said. You are in pain because you want something. It is that pain that will move you closer to what you want.

>>34606342
I hope not, that would not be good for anyone

>>34606200
Honestly there is no other way than to just tough it out. It used to make me mad too but nowadays i just dont give a shit, so yeah you eventually will just accept it

>>34606355
??? how young are we talking about

>>34606471
Bugger off kek, I'm not a pedo

>>34606335
if it's biological, there are resources meant to help you with that. They are called prostitutes.

>>34606200
Just turned 30, no joke take the fit pill. Lost a bunch of weight after my ex cheated on me, did a lot of going out to events, got comfortable with doing every single thing I was afraid of doing by doing it. Now I got back on the apps, they work very slowly. And I'm going on dates. It's low tier but it works and it fuels me enough until I get even fitter and even better photos. I have 3 dates this WEEK dude. Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday.
Once the ball is rolling, it's rolling.

I'm 5'7, barely. You have no excuse.

>>34606505
1) What kind of events did you go to?
2) What dating apps do you use?
3) What photos/bio do you use?
Also congrats on (currently) making it anon.

>>34606510
It's bait, retard.

>>34606200
how do you even consider being a sissy cuckold as something worth pursuing? Imagine being a pathetic faggot and wasting time and money on a ran through hoes

>>34606334
>normies start talking about how good sex feels.
They do? Not around me.

>>34606200
How much of an incel are we talking? Like never having even kissed someone? I know some dudes worry too much about losing their virginity which I don't think it's such a big deal, but not even kissing or cuddling with someone is a different thing. And >>34606505 might be bait but the fit pill advice works
>>34606334
>desire is the root of all suffering
It's also the moving force for most of the achievements of humanity.

>>34609392
You people are so funny. Even if that were true you have to admit this type of stuff always ends up sounding like an "it's over, no point in trying" excuse

>>34611258
I've seen this copypasta before, but what the hell, I'll bite.

This is mostly true if you exit the school system with zero friends, if you have one, you can get into a social circle with friends of your friend. Or just by going and doing hobbies. If you're lucky, someone in that circle will have a girlfriend who has a friend who needs a date.

I exited high school with 3 friends. I'm down to 1 friend now who could help me. One moved away, but if we get back in contact he might know people. I got adopted into a social circle because of my 1 friend. We went to play Magic the Gathering. Some guy who moved here from out of state at the store dropped his number asking for friends. Suddenly we're all going to his house and I'm meeting people. When he moved back home, my friend became the head of the group to organize stuff.

I've also got into two other social circles by myself. One was a board game club, but Covid messed that up. Another was just online, but we still talk after 5 years sometimes. I joined a Grand Theft Auto roleplay server all alone for that one. I did notice you had groups that came and went.

I don't think any social circle can really stay fully intact with people moving around and onto different things at different paces. But going out to a group activity can be a start at getting into a circle or forming your own. Oh, actually I did form an online group a couple times on my own by hosting events. Discount the internet if you wish, I think socializing is socializing, unless you're doing it for the purposes of trying to date.

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>>34609382
Not bait you fucking niggers, I'm probably one of the only few remaining real people on this website who make effort posts to try and actually help

>>34606510
>congrats on (currently) making it anon.
Thank you dude. Dibs on the currently, indeed, it's a shifting world. I had a great date yesterday but the one from Wednesday was moved to next Wednesday, and the one from Thursday is definitely happening since that girl really likes me.

Now for the questions:
1) I started with hiking meetups off meetup.com, and then ttrpg group meetups, board game nights, meaningful conversation evenings, bar/social meetups, pickics and dinners with strangers, then I branched out into consistent hobby groups, singing, dancing, acting, medieval/fantasy festivals, all the things that I'm afraid of I did them.
2) hinge, happn, bumble, tinder, okcupid, breeze, badoo. Out of all of these - badoo and happn don't work AT ALL, don't even bother. The other 5 work at times, but ALL SUCK. Together, they give you enough, individually - you'll starve 7 times over. The algo only let's me match with people who JUST made their profile so they're unranked yet (best case scenario for me, that's how I get normal girls) or quirky chunguses, and those are varying degrees of mentally ill, but you're a man - you can filter them on a case by case basis as you should, don't make generalizations, the only rules you should follow are 1) that meeting people is good, 2) that this girl is not for you and that's okay 3) That there's always going to be another girl

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2/3

3) Bio is honest. I talk about my interests, my TRUE interests, things that make me happy. Which is, hiking, nature, singing, deep talks, ttrpgs/board games (I don't mention video games, no one cares about solitary hobbies, women put them on there but as a man it doesn't add much value for you), folk music, and going to medieval/fantasy festivals. I write about myself that I'm a chill guy, who enjoys a deep connection, whose love language is physical touch and positive affirmations. Call me gay but this is real and my turnover rate is incredible, about 40% of girls I match with hit it off with me and we go on a date. Honesty is key. Even though I could write dancing and acting because I did those things - I don't. Because dancing scares me and acting makes me seem too performative and extroverted and I want to tailor expectations. But singing? I'll start singing any time any where, but not for any one. So, sell who you are TODAY. Things you're ACTUALLY happy with. I smile hard when I'm in nature, when I'm next to water, when I'm hiking, when I'm in those festivals, when I'm singing, when I'm with people. When I have a deep conversation with someone. That's real and that's what I enjoy, I say what I enjoy. I'm also a big foodie but I don't feel the need to write that because it implies expectation of cooking or going to restaurants. Just because I enjoy foods doesn't mean I'm going to write it, it also has to be conducive for the person I want to find. I WANT to find a girl who loves playing games and being in nature and into d&d and board games. And if she wants to sing with me that's an extra. That girl is perfect. A girl who's into any one of these things is already great. But I find I get along best with someone who's into at least ONE of these things.

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For pics - you shouldn't be ashamed of yourself. You need at least ONE, this is the FIRST PIC - pic of your face, as close up as possible, looking comfortable. Looking like you're in control of that moment, like you're very happy or very relaxed or a combination of both. A photo where if you look at it at a glance you gather a lot about the person instantly and you think - "I would have loved to be there with that guy in that moment", so, best one first. Everything after is up to you but I would say at least 1 full body pic, and focus on yourself more than the environment. If you're in a beautiful place in nature it doesn't have to be the focus, you're the focus. Just placing yourself in nature ticks the box for some girls - "he's an outdoors guy too". I got all my dates with photos of me in festivals or in the mirror in the elevator, so it's really not that strict. As long as you look good in that photo it will work. Just put on your best clothes, best facial hair and hair, and be fit. I'm becoming a fat fuck again I gained 2 kilos this month I hate it, face instantly changes. Take the fit pill.

>>34606200
There other things to live than sex.

>>34606200
This was me last year, but I went on Zepbound and started therapy. I also started paying attention to how seemingly normal, unassuming guys (I'd guess 16–19 years old) were ending up with attractive girls.

I realized I had to stop holding myself back, be vulnerable, and actually pursue what I wanted.

I lost my virginity last year, and it was enjoyable, but it didn't suddenly change my perspective on life. I'm still working on myself and learning how to navigate things as someone on the spectrum.

>>34606200
>in the far future
In the far future, the "copes" will keep getting "better and better" so you probably won't worry about it. Also maybe you will just accept your fate and stop caring, like how you don't care about all the shit that happened in the past you no longer even remember.

>>34606200
>things finally get better after years of suffering and abysmal failures
>finally learn how to talk to bitches and get bitches
>get murdered at random in public by the next elliot rodger crab in the bucket

OP I was a virgin til 29, and now I've had sex with 3 women, each one hotter than the one before. I'm thin and 5'11" but definitely chopped.
I'm going to be honest, getting laid in late 20s just isn't the same, it isn't as exciting as it would've been as a teenager when the world still felt real and vivid.
Personally I wouldn't even bother, chasing girls turned me into even more a retard than I already was.