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My mom passed away last month, I can't cover the funeral costs or afford the house payments since I have no job and can't work. Mom paid for her grave site but didn't leave any money for her funeral. I made a gofundme but nobody is donating. I have no friends, spent most of my life isolated at home now I don't know what to do. How do I get gofundme to work and people to actually see it?
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>>34608231
Sorry to hear, but if you made a GoFundMe, it should be visible for some people. Can be that people who has seen doesn't want to donate. Anyway sorry for your loss.
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>>34608231
Try sharing your story on X and Facebook with a link to your gofundme.
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>>34608238
>>34608241
Thank you
I don't want to spam up this site or something. I appreciate you
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>>34608231
Good luck anon, not just with the funeral, but with your life going forward.
Do you have any plans? (Army, etc)
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>>34608231
Look up charities in your area. There are some that will cover funeral expenses
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>>34608231
Genuinely don't know what I would do in this situation. Do you have a dad?
AIbot said this
>Practical things someone in that position should do:

>Contact the funeral home directly and explain inability to pay. Funeral homes often:
>reduce services,
>offer payment plans,
>know local charities/churches,
>or help apply for county burial assistance.
>Call the county social services office immediately. In many places there are:
>emergency assistance programs,
>indigent burial/funeral aid,
>eviction prevention,
>utility relief,
>SNAP/food aid,
>Medicaid/disability screening.
>If the parent owned the house:
>contact the mortgage servicer before missing payments,
>ask about hardship options, forbearance, or assumption issues,
>figure out whether there’s life insurance, >survivor benefits, or estate assets.
>If they “can’t work” because of mental or physical illness:
>apply for disability benefits,
>get documentation from doctors/clinics,
>connect with case management services.

>Reach out to weak ties, not just “friends.”
>People in isolation often think:

>“I have nobody.”

>But weak ties count:

>cousins,
>former classmates,
>neighbors,
>church members,
>online communities,
>local mutual aid groups.
>If using GoFundMe:
>the campaign needs:
>a concrete breakdown of costs,
>proof/updates,
>real names and relationships,
>sharing through communities that actually know the person.
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>>34608340
My dad passed away in 2021 I have nobody. Just my mom's house, it's paid off but I have no way to pay the utilities or taxes
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>>34608673
How old are you? Are you physically able?
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>>34608231
>I can't cover the funeral costs
direct cremation
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>>34608231
if you murder someone or get murdered or get your expensive lego collection stolen you will get gofundme bucks.
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>>34608231
Talk to your (her) church, which may have funds for this sort of thing. Ask the funeral director if they know of charities that can help. In a pinch, work out an affordable payment plan with the funeral director.
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>>34608340
>burn all your bridges trying to pay for something completely frivilous!
AI truly is retarded.
OP you don't need to pay a single cent, they don't just let corpses rot in a bag.
Let them take care of it, it's what society owes us after taking away our ability to just burn the stiff in the backyard.



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