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Any tips, guides, book reccomendtions, etc on talking to people, keeping a conversation going, initiating a conversation, etc.
Not just women, in general I feel as though my ability to talk to others has diminished over time and has always been subpar due to an insular, unfocused environment growing up.
One of the best things to do of course is get off this website and its boring, repetitive, stupid propaganda so that I have more palatable and interesting things on my mind to talk about. But that's essentially what I'm asking; how do you string one thought to the next in an engaging way, how do you fish for what would pique someone's interest, etc.

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Help not spill spaghetti
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>>34612286
There is a book "How to Make Friends and Influence People". Try that
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>>34612286
Practice, I guess. You have to put yourself in situations to try, and if something doesn't land or sours a conversation you don't do it again. I've been in a job where I kind of have to talk to people most days, and it gets easier with repetition.

>picrel
That's also how weeds are classified as weeds. Weeds are the real social construct



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