I've been cursed where I'm only attracted to women that give obvious signs of interest. I've been traumatized by being raised in a family of asian women (aka emotionally stunted womanchildren). I've seen women treat their husbands like shit because they didn't get the life they want. It made me furious to see dudes who were working so hard to send money to their moms who would then spend it on dumb shit like iPads for their kids. i want to date a woman who won't crack when times get hard, especially when WW3 is probably gonna happen soon. where can i find women like this?
>>34613124Marine Corps. Love me some ragged ass bitches
>>34613279i remember the very first girl i met on a dating app was from the marines. our first convo she told me how horny she was and wouldn't talk properly (idk how to explain it but its like she was talking at me not to me). those are probably the worst ones
>dudes who were working so hard to send money to their moms who would then spend it on dumb shit like iPadsYou're looking for independence as a trait. Basically: someone who knows that they don't love their parents, otherwise there's no real ending to the amount they desire thanks to lifestyle creep. (I'm not saying hate the parents, which plenty of people can't understand)It wouldn't be that she's suffering with you as much as she's also fine with living through suffering and fine with being with you.>women that give obvious signs of interestWhat signs are you looking for?
>>34613688i meant to "mom" as in the mom of their kids. basically their wives but i had a brainfart. but they do send money to their moms too who are just as retarded
>>34613688>What signs are you looking for?just any sign of assertiveness. i like it when a girl tries to get my attention because it shows she values me in some way so she isnt likely to flake. i dont like women that wait for me to initiate everything. i dont think i could rely on a person like that in an emergency. or if i die, and she ends up a single mom i wouldnt want her to be shitty to her kids.
>>34613707Same difference>>34613718An actual strong woman.You're asking for someone crazy with ambition and stuff, which for you is:> i wouldnt want her to be shitty to her kidsYou need to be able to offer what a woman wanting to raise good kids want.
Less struggling, more snuggling
>>34613729>someone crazy with ambitionthe opposite actually. i want someone who wants to be a mom. not a career girlboss type who also kinda wants kids but has no idea what an actual commitment that is.
>>34613753regardless, thats not even related to my question. my question is WHERE do i find these women.
>>34613124You sound a lot like me OP, in fact you sound exactly like me except I'm not Asian. I've thought about this a lot and I think the unfortunate answer that neither of us are looking for is that you will only know for sure if a woman fits this bill or not is if you both go through a struggle and she stays by your side and supports you through that. I recently have experienced a good amount of personal success at a relatively young age which has made me all the more anxious about this issue. That being said, I also grew up in a very religious family, and thus I attended church with people that had borderline schizoid religious nut parents that homeschooled them and got by selling au natural trinkets or doing missionary work or something of that nature. Due to lack of socialization and financial instability within these households, the adults that came out of these households tend to be fiercely loyal, and ironically less mentally fucked than many people these days. In short, look for a spergish, maybe slightly frumpy girl in church. It's no guarantee but they are probably a better option for stability than most women.
>>34616189Funny you mention religion because my family was religious as well. I don't like religion primarily because I witnessed a lot of hypocrisy growing up. I dunno if I can see myself going to church unless there's actual philosophical discussions going on. I enjoyed going to church at a homeless shelter because the people there and also the pastor were taking the sermons seriously because they were all going through terrible circumstances. It was night and day compared to going to another church full of rich kids where they did have a good sense of community but it felt very cult-like. they were also very naive of how the world worked.
>>34616189also i just remembered I did meet a girl like this. she grew up in poverty and religious nutcases. she was a good person and very smart but ultimately didn't want kids because she was afraid of losing her autonomy. so that's something to consider when looking for girls like these
>>34613753And you're fine with a mom who gives her kids ipads?You don't understand female ambition.
>>34619996>And you're fine with a mom who gives her kids ipadsno? i dont want a girl thats ambitious. she could be a retail worker for all i care. im just looking for a girl thats not retarded.
>>34620141>I'm only attracted to women that give obvious signs of interestYou don't go after the women that you want. I'm guessing you're more like your mother/female family personality wise.> i dont want a girl thats ambitious>moms who would then spend it on dumb shit like iPads for their kidsYou're going to end up with the same type of woman unless something changes
>>34613124>It made me furious to see dudes who were working so hard to send money to their moms who would then spend it on dumb shit like iPads for their kidsChinese people are funny
>>34620213not Chinese but yeah they probably do that too
