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How do I cope with being ugly? Like, fucking hideous.
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>>34613834
And I’m ugly and people grimace at me when I work, just make friends and stick to your friends for intimacy, and I don’t mean sex. As someone who is literally ugly and autistic the best friends you will ever have are people that are also ugly and autistic.
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I'm a 3/10 chudcel Latino, I dedicated my life to just harassing white people and embracing being antisocial. I laugh at NPCs and normies. I harass families while shopping just acting retarded my favorite trick is pretending I was hit by their cart and making a scene.
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>>34613834
Develop a personality. Be intelligent or entertaining or forceful or charismatic or successful or rich or talented or nice
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>>34613834
It’s all about confidence
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>>34613985
Of which I have none because I'm ugly.
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>>34614065
... because you don't want to succeed. You want to be a failure.
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I feel bad for ugly people as I have no idea what I'd do if I were ugly.
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>>34613834
You find confidence in something other than your looks. I'm also ugly and as I got older and older I began to care less about it and just accepted it. It also helped that I have a partner who loves me and accepts me as is. Made me realize that looks are obsessed over too much.
So just literally dont care. But take care of yourself and your hygeine but do not fuss over the things you can't change
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>>34614167
>I'm also ugly and as I got older and older I began to care less about it and just accepted it.
How old are we talking? Because I'm 27 already, and I'm obsessing about it more than ever.
>It also helped that I have a partner who loves me and accepts me as is.
Well, I'm a KHHV. I think any girl would be embarrassed to introduce such an ugly boyfriend to her friends/family.
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>>34613834
Change what you can and accept the stuff outside your control. Your peace is more important
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>>34614191
I'm 20. I have a big nose and acne (not even meds worked) and some other minor undisireable features. The only reason that outside reassurance helped me is because I'm overly reliant on peoples perspective of me. But it has decreased over time. I'm only saying what has worked for me, and generally outside validation is not a great solution. But sure, finding someone in your league could help.
I'm not sure what will personally help you in the long run, but negative self talk by putting yourself down will not do that for sure. What you can do is better yourself, take care of your looks (by doing things within reach) as I said before. Be confident in something you do and not some random physical feature you have. One of the most attractive things you can have as a male is confidence in yourself. The internet ruined our perception of ourselves and we became hypercritical of every little detail, and I'm sure you are a victim of that too. Escape that mindset.
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stop listening to this cucks in this thread adn fucking looksmax. They have no idea how much you got bullied, YOU have no idea how much you missedon. What kind of love what kind of affection what kind of a job offer what kind of a admiration. Imagine a jobless guy asked "how can i be rich" and all the comments you got "just accept it bro, you cant control it bro, your peace is important bro...yeah bro im ugly too my wife loves me tho". You cant be ugly and have a loving loyal wife. Your goal should be to be on YOUR fucking computer for HOURS researching how you can improve your looks, how you can get leaner, how you can get money for your plastic surgeries. How you can IMPROVE yourself and not be miserable unlovable ugly fuck. DO NOT ACCEPT IT AND DO EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER TO IMPROVE YOUR LOOKS AND YOU WILL STOP MISSING OUT ON LOVE AND AFFECTION THAT EVERYONE GETS WIHOUT DOING SHIT
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>>34613834
Fuck you, you made this thread before.

>>34613981
Fuck you, you answered that before in the other thread OP made.
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Blow your head off
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>>34614567
>average looksmaxx



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