Do males get thoughts of sex before the age of 6-7? And I mean without having been exposed to pornography or sexual encounters. My partner has said that he thought of having sex with his classmates or just girls he had crushes on from the age of 5. He also masturbated. He does not remember ever being molested or viewing pornography, not at that age at least. I cannot fathom how that would naturally happen to someone so young, so I am scared that he was perhaps molested. I personally do recall using an object to rub against my vagina one time, and I didn’t even know what I was doing. I had no clue I had a vagina, no clue males had penises, no clue what sex was, I never even saw my vagina until much later on, so I cannot understand this. Perhaps it is normal for males however, which is why I am asking here. Though I don’t see any reason for these kinds of thoughts to naturally occur in a child, regardless of gender, so I am inclined to believe he got molested in some way or exposed to pornography. But perhaps I’m wrong, hopefully even. I hate to use this forum, but I will never use Reddit.
We have a thing called libido. Its normalalso>6-7
>>34614064A libido before puberty is not normal, what the fuck are you talking about?
>>34614063Self-simulation, like rubbing stuff against your vagina or stroking your penis, is pretty common from a very young age. That part is normal.I'm a man and I definitely didn't have sexual thoughts at that age. Probably not until I was 9 or so. The age at which those urges develop does differ a lot. While most children have no interest in sex at age 5 without being molested in some way, it's totally possible your bf is just weird and developed early. If he doesn't remember being molested, I'd believe him
>>34614096It's pretty normal dude. Kids hump pillows and kiss mirrors.
>>34614096libido in the sense of testosterone driving you to do something, random erections, ejaculating, all that, no, that isn't there before pubertybut once you can figure out spitting on your hand and rubbing your penis head when your parents aren't watching and you're looking at the sears catalog ladies, though? that's something you want to get around to wherever the opportunity arises
>>34614114Picturing sex in your mind and wanting to do it is not normal or natural at that age. How would one know what sex even in 1st grade? Humping is one thing, but picturing having sex is another. >>34614100I just don’t think that’s possible. I never naturally developed thoughts of sex, since I sadly got exposed to pornography at 8-9, so I cannot imagine anyone under that age getting such thoughts. Like, how exactly would you even be capable of imagining it if you don’t know women even have vaginas? How would you know where your penis has to go and what you have to do? That is simply not normal. Furthermore, people who get molested early on often have those memories suppressed, it’s a way for the brain to cope, so that could’ve been the case for him. There is simply no way nature would have a kid that young have such thoughts. In fact, I’d go even further and say that no one has such thoughts in the first place, unless they got exposed to any sort of pornography, or if they already figured out how to have sex by exploring the body of their sexual partner (which is not something that happens anymore, since everyone knows of sex before even having sex).
>>34614129>How would one know what sex even in 1st grade?reading books? i learned it at that age by looking up evolution&paleontology. it's not exactly an impossible to discover secret
>>34614063It varies. What you described sometimes happens. But in very rare cases a guy only starts cooming in his 20s.
>>34614063If a young child is aware that sex exists, he will quite likely think about it sometimes. Conversely if he has no knowledge at all about sex or gender, he will probably be curious. The trope of "playing doctors and nurses" exists for a reason.Young children masturbating is really quite common. There generally needs to be some sort of accidental discovery of "oh, that feels interesting" but once that's happened, they often keep exploring.
>>34614063>Do males get thoughts of sex before the age of 6-7?No, unless he was sexually abused.
I started viewing porn at 6-ish but it didn't occur to me until I was 11 to actually emulate what they were doing in the videos.
>>34614063I did, yeah. I was never molested or sexually abused, didn't see any porn until I was older, , but yes, I had sexual thoughts around/before that age. I didn't conceptualize them as "sexual thoughts" because I didn't know what sex really was, but looking back, they absolutely were sexual thoughts>>34614096Yes, it is. Doctors even have a name for when kids can't stop jerking off before puberty, it's called "gratification disorder." Sexual behavior/thoughts in children makes everyone very uncomfortable but that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Speaking scientifically, this thought ("a libido before puberty isn't normal!!!") has never made sense to me -- you're telling me that all people have a biological drive to reproduce, similar to the biological drives for hunger, or water, or sleep, but the libido is the only one that doesn't exist at all in any form until a decade and change after birth? Hard to believe. (I shouldn't need to clarify but because this is 4chan I will -- obviously, none of this justifies or legitimizes sexually abusing children in any form whatsoever)
I don’t think anyone here is understanding what I said. He was thinking of sex, actual sex, him putting his penis inside a woman’s (or in his case a girl’s, since he said he only thought of that with his then classmates) vagina, at 6. He never saw porn, never saw sex in any context, not even animal sex. The masturbation itself is not the main point of my post. It’s the imagining sex part. Without seeing sex before, not to his knowledge. Now THAT is not normal.
>>34614064Kill yourself. Worst meme of the decade possibly the century
>>34614063There are beings that push that shit on kids and blame their past life for their decisions, that shit is not standing with me, Idk whether they think they're gonna get away with it, but I'm here to tell them that they won't.
>Do males get thoughts of sex before the age of 6-7? And I mean without having been exposed to pornography or sexual encounters. Really taboo topic, but yes, absolutely. I was jerking off to orgasm at like 8 and did touch myself prior to that. Absolutely fantasized about doing naughty shit to girls in my class or about the peek I snuck at their panties when I did it. Probably quadruple-digit orgasms before I ever started producing. Didn't require exposure to pornography or molestation for it to be so. Liked looking at ladies with big boobs pretty much right out the fucking gate. Liked pretty girls pretty much right out the gate. Liked kissing pretty girls and playing slapass with them and doing touchy stuff you can't get caught doing pretty much right out the gate. Never had a "cooties" or bring grossed-out by girls phase, thought being French kissed with a girl's tongue halfway down your throat was fucking awesome in like kindergarten to be honest. Did have a few instances of weird "sex play" or "playing doctor." I think that's pretty normal, but it's not often discussed because the topic is considered radioactive.I think in other countries the recognition that boys naturally have dirty thoughts about girls is more widespread.>>34614129>>34614796>Picturing sex in your mind and wanting to do it is not normal or natural at that age. How would one know what sex even in 1st grade? Humping is one thing, but picturing having sex is another.I dunno. I think it's literally just natural. I knew I wanted my dick sucked and thought about it without having been taught what a blowjob was. And instinct. I think making out and humping are preloaded software on human brains.What's weird, too, is that you do also sort of have almost an Edenic conception that what you're doing is naughty without ever being told that. You know your parents and the teachers aren't supposed to know about it. Like knowing to hide your nakedness when God starts walking through the garden.
>>34614063I wanted to fuck at 5 but didnt know about penetration.If you had an age where you "found out you were straight" or whatever you might be low iq.
>>34615014>If you had an age where you "found out you were straight" or whatever you might be low iq.Also this. I think the whole trope of naive and sterile boys who eat worms and dig in the dirt being grossed-out by girls for having cooties liking kissy stuff is a myth. Boys come out wanting to flip up their skirts and grab them. At least they did before they started putting cell phones in all the frog water to make us gay.
>>34614063Idk, I know I did, but I was molested a lot as a kid (luckily always by non-family females). How do you go that many years without seeing a body part that is in front of you when you look down in the shower?
