Should I just become fat and date a cute fat woman? I feel like giving up. I'm 34 now. I want a family and kids.
Fat women don't date fat men.
>>34615310>become fatWhy aren't you already?
>>34615315i said a cute fat girl you retard
>>34615310>I'm 34 now. I want a family and kids.Then look for a woman you can love and desire. You'll end up like the bazillion cuckolds (divorced or not) who end up hating their life as they realize that its betetr to be on your own than with some mid random.
I would be embarrassed giving children fat ugly mother
>>34615328I wasn't trying to feed your perversions
>>34615313This. OP thinks he can plapjak whenever he wants no matter what. A lot of men don't seem to be aware that women hyperinflation is very real.
>>34615310>I'm 34 now. I want a family and kids.If you're 34, it's too late.
its never too late. anyone saying that is a lying kike glowopMAN CAN until he no longer can, but then, hes already 6 feet underground. are you 6 feet underground op?no? then stop bitching and start moving your ass. you accepted being incarnated here, now get to work. its all doable in one year. clean your room, your house, garage. fix your damn car, get in physical shape, read up on xyz and maybe apply for a work. by that process you fixed your mindset already and might already find a hoe that has interest in you. then, you can come back to /here/ and ask how to get into her pants if needed. until then you have your directive
Losing weight is way more difficult than not gaining it in the first place. Ask me how I know Never get fat for any reason .
Anon says, I want a fat family and kids. Okay buddy how exactly do you want me to help with that?
>>34615310Fat women don't suddenly start liking fat men. Also I fuck with BBWs, it's a big fetish for me, and have dated fat girls, and they DO NOT like being told how fat they are. Even if it's like in a >I find your size so attractive>Your huge thighs turn me on >Your big body is really hot to me They claim body positivity for their online persona or whatever, but they fucking HATE that shit IRL. I once told a fat girl I was with her because I liked her size (we're talking like 300 lbs here) and she was genuinely mad at me. She tried to explain how she was on a weight loss journey and I wouldn't be saying that for long and how dare I make fun of her figure and all that shit. Even though I went out of my way to explain that her body was hot to me and her figure wasn't something I was making fun of but something I was admiring it. She didn't want to hear it. Things went cold between us and we ended up breaking things off. She was adamant too, that she was gonna lose the weight. I look her up from time to time and every time I do she's even fatter. You gotta remember nobody hates fat people more than fat women. They might claim they're proud of who they are but it's complete theatre. And if you're fat I imagine they'll hate that too, because they don't want to feel like they're in the fat category and the only guy they can get is also in the category with them. Fat women are very fun to look at, and very fun to fuck, but man, they are just a mess of bitter envy and spiteful seething.
>>34617493How do you get a fat fuckbuddy/gf anon? Did you use apps or something?
>>34617510Just flirt with them. Fat girls are still girls, they don't need a particular kind of approach. If you see them IRL at a party or a bar or the gym or something, strike up a conversation and be graceful, be interesting, be funny, be charming, like you would with any other girl. If it's like an online situation, like you're all in the same server/ game together in a VC it's the same with extra steps...>You listen to a girl yap about a thing. >You DM her the next day and say "I saw this and was thinking of you" and you send her a meme or an image or a link to something related to what she was talking about >If she likes you, she reciprocate and you can go from a group conversation to a private one You then navigate it the same way you would IRL. Be graceful, be interesting, be funny, be charming etc. Fat women are just like regular women. They want to feel wanted. They enjoy feeling desired. If the feelings are mutual they'll reciprocate them. If they don't like you, they'll awkwardly tell you no, and that's fine, you shot your shot, that's all you can do and you move on.
One of the most "successful" family guys I know is a guy who married a fat office lady with a bullshit 3 emails a week and a 20 minute skype call once a trimester, pumped 2 kids into her and has her cook food every day while the fucks around at his dad's mountain cabin. He has literally figured life out, like most of the things around you don't fucking matter. Not really, not actually. Like, you can have a hot gf but for what? Or you can keep playing video games and goon but for what? Or get a successful high paying high stress high reward job, but again for what? Nothing really matters except looking forward towards the next day and feel no dread. It's literally the most important thing in the world. If you can anticipate tomorrow and don't feel any dread, you've won in life.
>>34617654So you're saying we should all strive for fat whores?Yeah, no thanks bro
>>34616289Honestly this guy is right. It can be done in a year. The year I met my gf who is now my wife of almost 3 years, started with me playing Wow back in the day, for 12 to 20 hours a day, fapping to hentai and eating pizza every day, up to 4 pizzas a day.One day during that particular summer I got very pissed off at something and went outside to buy some Mars chocolate. I remember like it was yesterday. Took my bike to go to the Kaufland because I was that lazy to even walk. For some reason I biked 40km that day, haven't done that before or since, but I remember I was really angry at something and I wanted to get away and catch a breather and just pause life, even though my life was boring as fuck.Haven't stopped since. Lost 30kg, got very jacked, met a girl that summer that eventually I made into my wife. Haven't even touched my laptop since, I distinctly remember I left my draenei paladin AFK in Shattrath city, and he's still there to this day, like 8 fucking years later.Nowadays I bought my own home, I'm married, have a new car. It all took was 1 moment of fuck it and the need to change my life.
Fat girls dont care about social norms. If she is doing something out of the social norm and you remind her she is going to get mad no matter what it is. The idea here is that this type of woman will make you fat to remind you of the struggle she has to endure. It's a societal pressure some women can't handle.
>>34617664All I'm saying a fat virgin wife offers some sort of peace of mind that you really can't get anywhere else. You either get it or you're still in the rat race