>>34615556
You cope by deciding how you'll respond. I was an awkward and unsightly kid in high school but had a glow up in college and kind of whored around with whatever skirt was interested. Getting hotter (can't get taller but making sure you're not fat, have decent clothes, and aren't a social autist in public) and having a ho phase will get you over the regret of the young love. It just may leave you jaded about women and relationships as a whole when you're done.
>But that's a lot of work, chad doesn't have to work this hard
I get that but either you dislike your current status enough and will make changes to be somewhere different or you mope and accept that you won't be loved. That's for you to decide.

>>34615556
is this the danish anon again?

>>34615556
>176cm
Go to Latin America or Asia, and if you have kids, bring them to the doctor so they can get GH and grow.

>>34615556
Well, let's say you actually do get a note like this and end up seeing the girl without knowing she was the same one who wrote. Just being able to understand one another's hurt is enough to bring you into a gravitational field of connection.

>>34615564
A pity fuck is harsh and ho phase is unmatched - it will leave you confused and hurt after you realize you're all alone, unless you are truly at peace with never having a partner.

I feel that I will constantly be abandoned, as both my parents left me at an early age. Fight or flight never leaves, and it's best friend is anxiety. Choosing to want to be a long time lover rather than a one night stand takes courage and trust.

Dont let the facade of 'never getting a note' overshadow that finding love is a choice. If you already have someone in mind - that's half the battle.

>>34615568
Im from scandinavia but not danish so theres no dating outside of dating apps culture here
>>34615564
>college
>interested women
Ignoring that i already dress nice, my post should make those impossibilities noticable
>>34615609
Never racemix anon

>>34615640
Because as my post implies. No interested women and im in my mid 20s

>>34615616
>it will leave you confused and hurt after you realize you're all alone, unless you are truly at peace with never having a partner.
Fair enough. I could tell that the further into my ho phase I got, the less I was able to really connect or stay romantically interested in women who I think I would've had a good relationship with. I was just too high on the validation and going from being avoided to being sought after does a number on the brain

>>34615648
Work on rebuilding that kind of intimacy or romantic connection. Find someone you would actually relationship with, make conversation, text often, call, video chat and try not making it purely based on sexual encounters.

>>34615648
Yeah i difnt ask u to comr and flex on my post, fuck off tallchad. I hope you get the future you helped create

>>34615670
U too, go make your own thread. Unreal. Kikes cant even leave a single incel thread alone

>>34615556
Celibacy. I'm 175 cm and now being 27 I've pretty much accepted that I've always be alone und unloved. It is what it is, OP.

>>34615676
Where are u from. Its grim

>>34615679
I'm from Germany.

>>34615670
I'll try, just unfortunately is hard to be romantically interested at this point. I'll at least dial back the sexual obsession
>>34615640
Are you doing anything specifically to regularly meet new people (or women in particular that isn't just apps)? Is there no generic place of entertainment that you think you can attend and meet others (bars, raves/clubs, board game cafe, rec sports, etc)
>>34615672
I'm like 5'10" in America which is very average/mid. It is pretty easy to socialize here though, people aren't as closed off so that could be different if you're in a colder social climate

>>34615684
Germans are even shorter than where i live. Its over
>>34615686
No, theres nothing i can do. Im studying privately online to raise my grades. Theres nothing except gym i can join but cant exactly talk to anyone. I have been to clubs plenty of times but no one ever talks to me except to bum cigs. Very insular culture. Not like ope usa unfortunately. The only time a woman talked to me she ditched me after 3min and kissed a 2m tall guy infront of me after 30 seconds
>>34615686
5'10 is above average in the us. Its like being 6'1-6'2 here. In comparison. Being 5'9ish here is being like 5'6 in the us

>>34615684
Its so fucking over

average is not 1m85. I'm dutch and even at 1m88 I'm noticeably above average and we're taller than germoids

>>34615748
You have never been to norway or sweden. Most guys here are atleast half a head tsller than me here. And the dutch height thing is a meme. I was recently in amsterdam for the ye concert for several days and i was taller than atleast 60% of the guys there

>>34615556
>no woman has ever sent me something like this or expressed any interest in me because im average looking and 176cm (right above 5'9ish) in a place every male is on average 185 (6'-6'1)?
How do you know that's the reason? Have you asked every single woman who wasn't interested?

>>34615752
As a guy who's lived in nl for 6 years and I'm 5"7, I agree, I don't feel short here and I live in a very Dutch city, not Amsterdam or a major city. One in 20 people is very tall, the rest are between 170 and 180. They're not too different from me.
Just don't be fat man, not even chubby for us in our countries, that's what it truly boils down to. I know it sounds like a cop out, such a simple reason, but it's true man. Every Dutch girl is thin, most of them work out, everyone's on a bicycle. Even being chubby cuts your chances here. Be disciplined, become fit. I'm half way to my goal and I went from no matches to having matches and regular dates . Yes with Dutch girls.
Trust dude, get rid of the beer gut looking belly and chubby cheeks, that's the true difference between a man in his peak and a man who's not going to be looked at.
Trust me, it worked for me, even with a height where most Amerimutts would say "zooomgggg game over" but here I am and it's working
You got this man

>>34615765
Hmm its a complete mystery whats the difference between me and all the men i see with women. The 10cm+ difference is just a random thing. Thats why all the tall men i knew got gfs in college at the latest and guys with my heights i knew didnt get gfs until their 20s. Im sure rhats why no women ever spares me even a glanze

>>34615778
I never got any attention when i was skinny or average. I dont really have the classic beer gut even though im fat because im very broad chested/shouldered. It was the exact same when i wasnt fat in my early 20s. Im trying to get lean for my health but im not expecting any change

>>34615782
So it's pure speculation. Okay.

If you were to get women to write an honest list of the qualities they find attractive in a man, most of them would have "tall" on their list; but most would not put it anywhere near the top of the list. The one thing women really are attracted to more than anything else is confidence (or at least the appearance of confidence). If you can both seem confident and be funny as well, then you can get laid easily - and I'm speaking from personal experience. (I'm 5'3").

>>34615782
>and guys with my heights i knew didnt get gfs until their 20s.
If other guys your height eventually got gfs then why can't you? Guess that proves that it's not all about height doesn't it?

>>34615826
beta buxxing / jester maxxing / emotional tampon sort of relationship

>>34615848
Ok then, so why don't you do that?
>b-but I'm too good for that!!!
You're not.

>>34615848
This isnt even me (OP) dont fall for bait

>>34615855
bc it's not actually love (the real deal)
it's a transaction dressed up as love

>>34615855
+ clownery is futile
the moment a chad or even a beta buxxer with more money shows up, she's gone

>>34615823
Tall would probably be number one. Not even a big dick works for women. Confidence may be true but it cannot be manifested out of nowhere. Also hardly speculation
>>34615826
>If othrr guys with support networks and tons of friends got wingmaned by a tallchad why cant u
Because life is never fair

>>34615640
Why not racemix? You don't need to actually breed and your females already hate you. Why support the feminazis? You know they support unlimited male immigration to increase your competition, right?

>>34615897
>Why not racemix?
women of races are even worse
not only are the uglier, they're also often low IQ and, if they're from the west, they're as entitled as white women are

>>34615890
>Tall would probably be number one

What I find the most flabbergasting about all this incel shit is that you guys self admittedly have zero experience with women, often down to not even talking to them.
Yet somehow have absolute magical insight into the female mind, sacred knowledge bestowed by hallowed TikTok clickbait clips.

Would you trust a car mechanic who prattles on about knowing everything while being unable to change a tire on his own?

>>34615940
Yeah maybe just stop giving yourself psychological damage by streaming brainrot content and incel forums

>>34615556
>lost my virginity to a 1 time tinder date and pity fuck
if you can actually get matches and fuck off tinder you don't have a real problem. you could do it 100 more times. stop whining

>>34615860
And do you think a girl who is with you only because you're above a certain minimum height is "real love"? Top fucking kek.

OP is a mentally ill larper who posts this every day.

>>34615556
Go do an elliot rodger 2.0. I am in the same boat as you modern day bitches are insane with their ridiculous standards and their stupid fucking games and ghosting and bullshit. So fucking sick of it.

>>34615564
How do you have a ho phase in college as an average non chad? I must have gone to the wrong college because women were not exactly dying to get with me and if you go out to bars they all stick tight with their group or boyfriend. Most parties required you to be in a frat or be on a list.

>>34615778
Im in America 5 goot 8 work out and in good shape and girls wont even hold a fucking conversation with me.

>>34615672
Holy based

>>34615890
>Tall would probably be number one.
False.
>Not even a big dick works for women.
True: having a big dick is actually a disadvantage. They hurt.
>Confidence may be true but it cannot be manifested out of nowhere.
Learn to read, you illiterate moron. I said "Confidence (or at least the appearance of confidence)". You can't manifest confidence out of nowhere, but you *can* learn to mimic it convincingly. This is what I did, and it is what worked.
>Also hardly speculation
It is PURE speculation. If every man is taller than you then the fact that *some* other men are getting laid more than you could be down to literally anything.

>>34615556
I've only ever received "platonic" letters from a female friend but they were fully decorated and smelled like her perfume every time. In some ways I think that's worse.

my bf is 168 cm and I’m 163 cm, I’m writing him a letter like this right now (from canada). he is 22, i am 24. many ppl think their height is affecting this, but it’s not always true. either move to a different location, or realize that it’s not your looks and height which make you receive this treatment. it could be the way you act, how you dress or low confidence. luckily, these are all aspects you can change. don’t let your height and supposed average looks dictate what you are actually in control of.

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>>34616072
>get one lucky match in japan
>this means u can get it with the stuck up bitches of your own race
Bro....

>>34615905
Dont larp as me

>>34616023
>would you trust narcisstic liars (the average woman) while they endlessly gaslight and lie to you about their preferences so you and other social outcasts deemed unfit purely for height dont blow up in anger and gun them (women) down for how they were treated
Ur like that smug basedjak if it was a woman

>>34617203
No. I posted this once before and i feel asleeo so rhe thread got archived

>>34617358
>canada
Not comparable to western europe plus lie

>>34617358
Also when women arent interested it isnt always a mans fault

Bump
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Fed

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Bump 2. Still havent gotten any tips. Just chads flexing and foids lying

>>34615556
Have you considered doing meth?

OP, you are not alone okay. Somewhere out there like there is a Zoey frustrated from people not accepting her furry animations, there is a girl out there like you going through something similar. Everyone in the world in some fashion is an asshole to each other.

>>34618670
Clavmaxxing? No

>>34618676
Im an upstanding citizen

>>34618698
No, as a hobby. It's supposedly so good you'll forget about women. You'll stop craving female validation and start craving meth instead.

>>34618751
Wow original and hilarious. Im sure you're doing way better since u come on here and write this

>>34618827
Bymp

>>34617250
5'8" is tough but not impossible tier, especially in America. Focusing on staying lean, getting good looking clothes, and socializing properly should get you somewhere. I also think non chads should just go hard on irl social game (apps can work if you have good pics and look decent facially but that's the minimum just so you can get some mid bitches or women looking for a free meal). I know this isn't great advice for the recluses of 4chan but going out once a week (or at least a couple times a month) to events or places where you can reasonably expect the same people to be there is good for keeping the social muscle working and expanding your social circle. Eventually, you should be able to regularly interact with women and go from there. I'm 5'10" with a fitbod and a good face (generally sharp features that only look better since getting lean) and I know its not the same situation for everyone but optimizing what you can is all you can do
>>34617248
Chatting up people in classes, joining student orgs, and making an effort to be outside hanging with others as much as I could (I promised to hang out or go to events at least twice a week and naturally increased from there). Parties and bars help (I got a lot of hookups from drinking and dancing with others) but the bulk of mine just came from classmates or org members that thought I was cute and wasn't a total degenerate (not autistic, could sleep with them without running my mouth about it around campus, etc.)

>>34618859
Ameris really lucky that 5'10 is abive average

>>34618827
No. I'm a virgin, soon to be wizard. At this point I'm unironically considering doing meth at some point. If I get my money right I could probably afford a pretty comfy lifestyle desu

>>34616127
yep, you'll get genuine physical desire