What ACTUALLY does one say to ask someone out..I'm pretty pretty sure my coworker likes me. We've hung outside of work in groups. I feel like I can't read it. I'm dense at this kind of thing. There's alot to mention in terms of out rapport but I'm.. 80% sure he's interested.How would I word the act of asking him "out"? I kind of clam up when he gets too flirty, so I don't know if he's reading that as disinterest. Theres nuance thats complicated. Adding to that ofc I've never been in a relationship at late 20s. Half by choice, half not. This is completely new for me.
>>34617099Don't hit on co-workers. It hardly ever ends well.
I'm trying to leave the place anyway! Very bad gig
>>34617099Build on something she said. "You mentioned you like Chinese food. Want to try out that new restaurant down the street?"classic movies...film festivaljazz....clubpinball games... arcade
>>34617331Not OP and not a girl either but is going to see a movie (in theater) a good first date or no it's too boring
>>34620714>is going to see a movie (in theater) a good first date or no it's too boringA movie is the worst date possible. You're sitting next to someone, in near darkness, for more than two hours, without talking to them or interacting with them in any way. You should do something that is fun but which allows conversation and interaction.
>>34617099>I kind of clam up when he gets too flirty, so I don't know if he's reading that as disinterest.He definitely is. Any man would. If he's flirting, he's interested; all you have to do is flirt back. When that's been going okay for a bit, ask him out. The fact that the two of you spend time together as friends means you have to be really clear and unambiguous about that. If you had never spent time with him then simply saying "Do you fancy going for a drink?" would be all that was needed; but in your case, going for a drink might not be a date, so you have to spell it out: "Would you like to go on an actual date some time?"
