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I'm soon going to be 30.

I have always been a recluse weird guy.

My female co-workers say I'm very handsome but I can never tell if they are being genuine or just nice. I have no male friends where I work or life in general.

Anyway to tell?
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>>34618329
They are being genuine
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>>34618334
How do you know?
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>>34618338
Women make zero effort to speak to or even make eye contact with men they aren't interested in at least getting to know. If a woman doesn't like you, she'll ice you out.
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>>34618348
I don't care for women desu. I'm a turbo weirdo recluse guy, I only leave the house to work.

I think I may be gay? Or maybe asexual?

Point is, I want to know how to tell if someone is being nice or genuine when they say you are handsome.

Or a neutral place I could go to check that out.
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>>34618329
>but I can never tell if they are being genuine or just nice
They are just being nice, if they saw you as a hot person they would try to get on with you. They are lying and trying to keep your hopes up but they know it's a lost case.
Hot guys gets bitches, normal guys are not seen almost as if theya re not real, ugly guys get pity.

You are ugly. 100%
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>>34618329
>30
>Using 4chan
>Female coworker
she is probably just joking and has probably caught you using enough to tell how much of a complement can destroy you.
Unironically, people are never genuine when around insecure people like us, they find us repulsive and wish to be away
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>>34618386
>if they saw you as a hot person they would try to get on with you
But they are a lot older than me.

Old ladies with husbands and kids, they kind of have nothing to gain.
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>>34618329
Post pic, send selfie, we will judge you
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>>34618357
>Point is, I want to know how to tell if someone is being nice or genuine when they say you are handsome
if they're not in your family women will never lie and fake saying you're handsome. they might say you're well dressed or something. but average or ugly guys they never ever risk saying they're handsome full stop
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>>34618386
You sound jealous
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>>34618465
That's insane not only would I risk doxxing myself by giving away a photo on the internet I also don't have any selfies on me.

As a I said I'm a weirdo and a recluse, selfies are not really a thing I do.
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Same problem here.
I'm walking garbage so no ever complements how I look, that's fine I know what I am.
But I get to feel insecure whenever someone complements what I say or what I do.
I know it's very possible that it is genuine but why do they not feel that way?



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