I have a crush on a guy but the feelings arent mutual. We havent seen or spoken to each other in 5 months but I cant get over him or forget about him… any advice?
>>34622449Time and other guys. Crushes aren't worth getting overly invested in. It either works out or it doesn't. It's really not something that worth's getting hung up on especially when you'll just find another guy to crush on in the future.Everyone's been there before. Chin up and keep looking.
you should get your bum fucked by a big black man that should take your mind off that pussy little homk
>>34622449Getting over a crush can be excruciating. In psychology there is something called the zeigarnik effect where the brain will endlessly loop thoughts/obsession because the loop never came to a conclusion. The brain hates unfinished business!Unfortunately it's one sided sometimes (like your situation) and you have to conclude things as they are and give yourself permission to focus on your own lane.Bittersweet, yes, but if you live your life for you and not someone else you invest in an opportunity to meet someone later down the road that will likely not only be better for you but will walk with you as you both grow and compliment each others unified paths.Just for reference I'm 43yr male that got ghosted after 12yr long relationship and also been rejected by crushes. Best of luck to you, what you want isn't always what you need.
