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>rejected by any woman I approach
>only approached by fat, polyamorous Disney adult women (happens once every few years)

I’m too ugly to attract someone I’m attracted to, but I would sooner die than throw away my dignity. How do I hold on until death without compromising myself?
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>>34623810
How many women do you approach ? What are you, like a 5/10 ?
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>>34623810
>How do I hold on until death without compromising myself?
Appreciate the fact that the women you approach are also not compromising themselves and are keeping their dignity instead of being with you.
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>>34623821
I’m definitely 5/10. I probably approach several a year, if I happen to meet any at events etc,

>>34624224
Holy shit. It really is over for me.
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If you're ugly you should date ugly women. Why would a woman above your league go out with you?
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>>34624580
It has happened several times in a row. My last girlfriend was a 10/10 hot alt baddie, last one before that had been a model/dancer, last one also an alt baddie. However, both said alt baddies cheated on me/dumped me, while the model/dancer was more my fumble.
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>only approached by fat, polyamorous Disney adult women
In what kind of reality do you guys live? I have been off the dating market for 10 years, but I have never met anything more degenerate than a girl who was into swinger clubs with her ex.

are you some kind of cosplay convention and game journalism people or something?
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>>34624963
problem is very easy to see from my side
you're going after girls with baggage, and bodies
try going after 6/10 inexperienced girls

especially if you're only approaching at events and shit, that's where you meet the worst types of girls
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Visit a brothel for now, get on ozempic to drop massive weight in a few months Then get on some creatine to build muscle fast. So about in a year you'll be in your best shape. Can't really help you much on the approach until you get that part finished, you could always go full passport bro though anytime
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>>34625543
>6/10 inexperienced girls
Ah yes, the prime waifus
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>>34626082
unironicaly the dumbest advice is the truest
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>>34623810
Never settle for an ugly chick especially if their personality is as ugly as their looks. Not worth
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>>34626102
I agree, mids with no body counts are what's best for any guy
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>>34624963
>10/10 hot
>alt baddie
No such thing thoughbeit
>cheated on me
Why did they get with you in the first place? Are you a betabuxxer?
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When you approach one, do it "by chance" and bring up a topic with her. Also, give her a very simple compliment, like about her hair or an accessory. Think about it a little (don't trust a teenager's advice too much).
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>>34623810
>throw away my dignity
I mean, if that's how you view it why should anyone throw their dignity for you? If you weren't so delusional you may have had a chance at being happy
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women who approach you don't count, enjoy the self-esteem boost then treat this as a non-event
>I probably approach several a year
good, lower your standards (a little) & get this number up

consider knowingly going for the bottom of your dating range for a pump and dump.
your game gets better through trial and error with the occasional success.

you're on the right track
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>>34626516
>”polyamorous” partner
>chance at being happy

Really activates the almonds
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>>34624464
Here is your problem, you don't approach enough. It's not a numbers game but you still have to do it multiples times a week. If you talk to like 5 girls each week this won't be an issue. You are not ugly enough for it to be an issue, just pump those numbers.
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Wrong place wrong time wrong actions



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